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Edited by
NURSE2000
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Fri 12/26/08 06:04 AM
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And they lived happy ever after stories? I thought I found one but as usual it did not work out. ( he was afraid of commitment ) I need to hear there is love after mingle
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I haven't found it yet.
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Well, it's fairly new yet.......but I'd say yes there is. I found a wonderful man just when I least expected it, and also when I had pretty much given up that any man on here really was looking to actually date (in real life...hehe).
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No..... I keep meeting men who seem great and grounded at first, then I find out they are emotionally unavailable.
ARGGGHHHHHH! |
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Well, it's fairly new yet.......but I'd say yes there is. I found a wonderful man just when I least expected it, and also when I had pretty much given up that any man on here really was looking to actually date (in real life...hehe). I am so happy to hear that. Lately all the guys I go out with are only interseted in sex or do not speak English. I cannot have a relationship if i do not understand th person!! 
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No..... I keep meeting men who seem great and grounded at first, then I find out they are emotionally unavailable. ARGGGHHHHHH! I found one that we were seeing each other on and off. just when the relationship is looking good he ditches me. the last straw was he finaly said to me last weekend he is now ready to love ad maybe marriage in the future. but then did not even call me to wish me Merry Xmas!! I guess he is not ready for a relationship with me. |
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I found one that we were seeing each other on and off. just when the relationship is looking good he ditches me. the last straw was he finaly said to me last weekend he is now ready to love ad maybe marriage in the future. but then did not even call me to wish me Merry Xmas!! I guess he is not ready for a relationship with me. He started having feelings for you, got scared, and bolted. Story of my life....at least with the ones I want. He's not ready for a relationship with anyone. It's not you, it's him. |
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I think it is time to move on to the next part of my life becoming one those crazy recluse women!! whose best relationship is with TIVO!
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I hear that.... except wait, that is where I already am!
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I found one that we were seeing each other on and off. just when the relationship is looking good he ditches me. the last straw was he finaly said to me last weekend he is now ready to love ad maybe marriage in the future. but then did not even call me to wish me Merry Xmas!! I guess he is not ready for a relationship with me. He started having feelings for you, got scared, and bolted. Story of my life....at least with the ones I want. He's not ready for a relationship with anyone. It's not you, it's him. I am tired of waiting for him to realize it. the story of my life. They realize how much they love after it ends by then I don't want him!! |
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No..... I keep meeting men who seem great and grounded at first, then I find out they are emotionally unavailable. ARGGGHHHHHH! Glad to know I'm not the only who finds this. |
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No.... they just say that so they can blame you, so that nothing can ever be their fault. They know you're done...
Damn "nice" guys.... |
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I hear that.... except wait, that is where I already am!
at least tivo is there when you need him!!
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No..... I keep meeting men who seem great and grounded at first, then I find out they are emotionally unavailable. ARGGGHHHHHH! Glad to know I'm not the only who finds this. It is good to hear I am not alone at this!! thanks so much girls!!! |
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I am now understanding that guys who are looking for a woman for "dating" are looking for someone they can have sex with for an extended period of time without any emotional attachment. I'm switching to the guys looking for "friendship" or "relationship".
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I am now understanding that guys who are looking for a woman for "dating" are looking for someone they can have sex with for an extended period of time without any emotional attachment. I'm switching to the guys looking for "friendship" or "relationship". These men are clueless, regardless of what they say they want. They don't know what they want. The sex is extraneous.... has nothing to do with anything but sex. IMO They just go through the motions. They pretend they are emotionally available, but once they have feelings for you, they freak out. |
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I tried that too and no luck there either with the ones that I went out with. Good Luck!!
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These men are clueless, regardless of what they say they want. They don't know what they want. The sex is extraneous.... has nothing to do with anything but sex. IMO They just go through the motions. They pretend they are emotionally available, but once they have feelings for you, they freak out. Well, whatever it is I will be much more careful the next time around. At least it has helped me clarify in my mind what I want. |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 12/26/08 07:14 AM
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My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones
we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh?
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I am now understanding that guys who are looking for a woman for "dating" are looking for someone they can have sex with for an extended period of time without any emotional attachment. I'm switching to the guys looking for "friendship" or "relationship". These men are clueless, regardless of what they say they want. They don't know what they want. The sex is extraneous.... has nothing to do with anything but sex. IMO They just go through the motions. They pretend they are emotionally available, but once they have feelings for you, they freak out. the one I went out with told me He knew he lost his family he was never around ( workaholic) so when i am with him still does the same thing.. so I told him I would never marry a man that has not learned his lesson from his previous marriage. |
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