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Topic: is there life after mingle?
caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 12/26/08 07:16 AM
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lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:17 AM
I asked the one I'm seeing if he knew the definition of insanity: ya know, doing the same thing over again expecting a different result. He knew the quote verbatim. Funny thing is, I'm doing it too. Chuck!

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 12/26/08 07:17 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:18 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? It's like Murphy's Law.... not so hard to see.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 12/26/08 07:19 AM
<<<<emotionally <<<<mentally <<<<physically <<<<selectively <<<<available

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:23 AM
Chuck, my point is simply that when you meet a person you want, they aren't available. When you meet a person you don't want, they are. Ya know?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/26/08 07:23 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? And, that is one of the things I have done some hard thinking about. I'm not going to keep making the same mistakes over and over again. I'm 41 and it's time to start making some better choices and breaking self-defeating behavior patterns.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:24 AM
Ruth..... If you figure it out would you please tell me how you did it?

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Fri 12/26/08 07:25 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? how true!!

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Fri 12/26/08 07:26 AM
Chuck, my point is simply that when you meet a person you want, they aren't available. When you meet a person you don't want, they are. Ya know? totally agree with you!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/26/08 07:27 AM
Ruth..... If you figure it out would you please tell me how you did it? Sure. But, I probably have very different issues and behavior patterns as you do.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 12/26/08 07:28 AM
Chuck, my point is simply that when you meet a person you want, they aren't available. When you meet a person you don't want, they are. Ya know? Yes I know what you mean it is simple though kinda like the laws of physics likes repel oposites attract the problem is simple when we anylise it but getting the world to understand is the challenge

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Fri 12/26/08 07:29 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? And, that is one of the things I have done some hard thinking about. I'm not going to keep making the same mistakes over and over again. I'm 41 and it's time to start making some better choices and breaking self-defeating behavior patterns. that is the problem. I keep ending up with the same type of guy!! I need to start dating guys that are emotionally ready but were in the Hell are they?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:29 AM
Ruth..... If you figure it out would you please tell me how you did it? Sure. But, I probably have very different issues and behavior patterns as you do. The basic premise would be the same, though. We are both smart, independent women.... yes?

Peekinin Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 4970	Fri 12/26/08 07:30 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? OMG,,I so agree with your smarty pants sista,,,((((Lilith))))) I'm trying to figure out why I fall for guys who suck the life out of me

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Fri 12/26/08 07:33 AM
Ruth..... If you figure it out would you please tell me how you did it? Sure. But, I probably have very different issues and behavior patterns as you do. The basic premise would be the same, though. We are both smart, independent women.... yes? too smart and we know what we want

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Fri 12/26/08 07:34 AM
My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? OMG,,I so agree with your smarty pants sista,,,((((Lilith))))) I'm trying to figure out why I fall for guys who suck the life out of me because they do to all of us!!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:35 AM
I'm a bit masochistic, I'm afraid. If I didn't like it why would I keep allowing it to happen? Seriously....

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/26/08 07:35 AM
Ruth..... If you figure it out would you please tell me how you did it? Sure. But, I probably have very different issues and behavior patterns as you do. The basic premise would be the same, though. We are both smart, independent women.... yes? Yes, good point. If the changes I am making work to attract a different kind of guy I will let you know via private email.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 12/26/08 07:36 AM
Thanks, Ruth.