Topic: Agree or Disagree?
Moondark's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:17 AM

Agree, My best relationships have happened when I wasn't actively looking.


This is true. But some of my worst also happened wehn I wasn't actively looking.

So I think it is still and even chance it can go either way.

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:17 AM
hey romee....long time no see....gigglesnort



SOUL MATE



Is there truly a soul mate?

Someone on whom you can always depend?
Someone who brings sunshine into your life.
More than a lover and always a friend?
When they hear their voice and know that they're safe...
It is then when a smile lights up your face.
To know true love, you want to give of yourself.
Thoughts are of them and no one else
It matters not if the road to happiness is a bumpy ride.
As long as your soul mate is there by your side.
You can handle the storms for you see sunny weather.
Life is beautiful when you are together.
Borrow from tomorrow's sun if there are clouds today.
Pick flowers and savour them, as you pass along the way.
If you find your soul mate
and you love them so ... Never forget to let them know
Love with a fervour full of fire.
Let them know they are your hearts desire.
And if they give it all back to you.
Then you will know that they love you true.
Perhaps it was fate ... For you have found your
SOUL MATE


Always loving you...

caamken's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:17 AM
looking not looking what is the difference

I think it is more destine you need to be in the right place at the same time

and when you find each other you will know there is something to build on

no photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:19 AM

:smile: Agree or disagree - the best way to find the right relationship is not to look, and it will come along at the right time?:smile:


It's a nice cliche but simply does not hold up in reality. Not for me, anyway.

Moondark's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:27 AM
I don't think it is destiny. I think that when you are not actively looking, you may meet someone that you might have overlooked when looking for someone specific.

I also think that when you are not actively looking, it gives the impression of being happy in your life and happy with yourself and then you are more likely to meet someone because that kind of happiness and satisfaction draws people.

hopefulhoffman's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:34 AM
i agree nature has a way of sending you what you need when you need.if you look for it you find whats there.not what you need,i know from hands on experience

romee's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:36 AM
hey there feral' long time no see hey lex what's up bro.

hopefulhoffman's photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:40 AM
although we are looking for a love that our childhood is safe with.when you really think about it.we are looking for that person that wont leave our side.that will be there good or bad and understand that your going through a faze.and even when the chips are down,the dont run they stick around.they see the potential you have.and push to see you use it everyday.but do we really give that same love in return.or do we cleverly look for ways to hide from what we feel.in fear that this isnt real.for all the failed relationships i have had.i onlyh need to learn from them so when the right one comes along.i can give that person all the good i have to offer.and none of the bad.


a friend to all george

no photo
Thu 12/25/08 09:53 AM

hey there feral' long time no see hey lex what's up bro.


Romee! What's going on? Seems like you pop in every three months or something!

shades


motowndowntown's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:04 AM

:smile: Agree or disagree - the best way to find the right relationship is not to look, and it will come along at the right time?:smile:

wether you're "actively looking" or not, the trick is to know an opportunity when you see it, to act on it, and to keep your options open.

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:09 AM


hey there feral' long time no see hey lex what's up bro.


Romee! What's going on? Seems like you pop in every three months or something!

shades







(((((((((Lex)))))))))))))))))))) how are ya darling man...


kiss kiss hug hug for Christmas




no photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:11 AM
I would tend to believe that theory of if not looking your more relaxed with yourself... But either way it happens..it is what happens after you meet someone that decides the destiny or fate of that relationship..

no photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:14 AM



(((((((((Lex)))))))))))))))))))) how are ya darling man...

kiss kiss hug hug for Christmas


Hey ((((((((((Deb))))))))))

Merry Christmas!!

I'm just grinchifying all over the place today....!!

shades


feralcatlady's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:20 AM




(((((((((Lex)))))))))))))))))))) how are ya darling man...

kiss kiss hug hug for Christmas


Hey ((((((((((Deb))))))))))

Merry Christmas!!

I'm just grinchifying all over the place today....!!

shades




Oh no then you must go to Fun Things....where it's not serious and funny stories.....for grinches like you.....lol

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:36 AM
So far I don't know of any method that works, other than trial & error.

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:46 AM

So far I don't know of any method that works, other than trial & error.



"THE MATCHMAKER" SHE IS PROVEN......SHE WORKS......


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 12/25/08 06:44 PM

:smile: Agree or disagree - the best way to find the right relationship is not to look, and it will come along at the right time?:smile:

Totally agree with this one.

Totage's photo
Thu 12/25/08 06:45 PM

:smile: Agree or disagree - the best way to find the right relationship is not to look, and it will come along at the right time?:smile:


Disagree noway

BertDCaveman's photo
Thu 12/25/08 06:46 PM

:smile: Agree or disagree - the best way to find the right relationship is not to look, and it will come along at the right time?:smile:


So you mean use braille and feel all the women up

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 12/25/08 07:03 PM
that works......laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh