ok so i just recently got an e mail from a man on here and never in my life have i been talked to so rudely all because i didnt feel like his comment of "hey im horny" was a great ice breaker. I explained to him that i had more respect for myself then to sit on the internet trying to help grown men relieve themselves!!!! He went nuts and said that mingle was a dating site not for little girls that just want to talk!! um im sorry isnt talking part of dating and when did it become ok to be so rude to someone you dont know?? Im lost here lol just wanted to vent

your first mistake was in replying to just any old nut case that emails you

I would kick him in the virtual penish!!!

I am trying to teach these young bucks the proprer way but you can't stop them from being that way. I am always respectful unless you give me a reason not to be.

Yo Shawtttyyy can i axxxeee you a question,

Hey I'm horny



















but I wouldnt tell thah to someone I dont know
some people are just rude and you just need to ignore them

OUCH
quit it

You can report the email to a mod if that should happen again. He will get a warning on it at least. It might have been best just not to respond to the initial email as that only served to further the argument. Dont worry about it and move on. Enjoy the forums.

well i had talked to him through e mail and then we exchanged aim, then he turned wierd!

Even in cyber land first impressions matter I am very carefull what I say im here to make friends and maybe someone to spent the rest of my live with eather is nice

Well in that case, you must have had some indication there was a problem? I would take it a little slower next time before handing out private emails etc..Its a live an learn with this cyber environment.

Im to the point i won't even go on im anymore,





you said it Trisha


People are weird

The internet is unfortunately full of people like that, that being said there are still good respectful people out there (myself included)

Good for you. Sounds like the perfect jackass!!! Next time that happens, give them a 900 number; make 'em pay for sex talk!!!! Egads!!! Those miscreants!! And to think, they could be your neighbor or sitting next to you in church or married or the banker you are talking seriously to about a loan or WHATEVER!!!

I usually ask for bank account info, routing number, SSN#.....I am thorough.

What cup size are you?

Do you swallow?

Those were my two favorites. My IM has been disabled since week one of being here.

And the answer is???

And the all time classic...will you marry me?

I truely try to respond to every single message that is sent. Even if I am not interested I will keep my reply brief and am grateful for the effort made on the part of the suitor.

HOWEVER, when I get "those" kinds of messages....I get rude, and IGNORE them....you cannot teach someone to respect you. And obviously they dont if they are sending emails like that!

Look at it this way, be grateful you know they are a jerk before you even have to say hello.

I applaud you on that, more of a bigger person then i am