I recently found out my best friend is living and have a sexual relationship with my ex. I know he can date whomever he wants, but I feel betrayed and very hurt. I still work with the woman, but she not my supervisor any more. Changing or transferring out of the department is not a option. I would appreciate you comments on this.

I want revenge, but I really not that kind of person, and they both know it.

For the right price, I can get rid of both of them for you.

With a best friend like that who needs enemies, huh? Still must have feelings for him, I guess. I am sorry to hear that. I know it must hurt. Personally, I am glad my ex has someone else. I wouldn't wish lonely on my worse enemy. Maybe your ex will be your revenge if the ex is anything like mind. Just kidding. I hope you luck with it.

what goes arounf,,,,comes around,,,,,maby they both will get a taste of it

You are in a very hard situation.
The best thing you can do is put on a happy face while at work and try to let your friend know that you are happy being the way you are now. I am not saying that in the back of your mine you secretly have your hands around her throat choking the life out of her. Just remember she is the one that is running back to your ex telling him how happy you look. This is a little revenge because now your ex is wondering what or who is your life that's making you so happy. Sweety, always make them wonder!!!!!

It might be workable.
The lady has her use for the fellow, obviously, and it is not an unusual situation.
Happiness is the best medicine, for everyone, but I also understand that this robs trust in privacy from your world.
Being a scoundrel, I can ask, does she have an ex that you might throw for a loop?

What we really need to know is how long have you been divorced? Time has away of making things better. Smile and try to find things that make you happy. If you need to vent this is the place to do it.

Never let folks know what bothers you.
Gives them something to talk about.
Does show who your real friends are.
You split for a reason, she will find out.

Keep smiling, makes people wonder what YOU'RE up to.

It probably feels like another rejection, but I would pretend it didn't bother me. Maybe they deserve each other. And try to figure out why it bothers you.

How did you find out? She's supposed to be your best friend???? Did she tell you?

You were betrayed there, best friend not. I go with turn your back on them and act happy when you see them. But I wouldn't put up a front like something like that is okay. Your revenge go out and enjoy life :)

He is your Ex for a reason, isn't he?
Your supposedly best friend will find out in time.
And then you will be the last one to laugh.
Just look forward to that, it will make you happier.

P,S. don't get down in the gutter with them. Not worth it.

lovetoride - I am really sorry that you are amidst this situation. There is nothing good about it. Have to agree with everyone else's comments about acting happy and making her (and him)wonder what is going on in your life. Have yourself some flowers delivered to the office. That'll get them wondering in a hurry. You can cry, scream and yell when you get home at night.

I agree with invisible :)

AMEN to that, again and again. It never ends up making you feel better, only worse!

YES REMEMBER THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA. LOL
JUST HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND SMILE.. TAKE THE GOOD WITH BAD SMILE WHEN YOUR SAD LIFE GOES ON!!!!!

Tell the office gossip that you recently slept with your X and that you are afraid you are becomeing the other woman but he just wont leave you alone...That he tells you that you are the only woman that has ever satisfied him.......Then deny everything when someone else ask and tell them to please dont repeat everything because you dont want to cause him any problems

I like your comment, that good! I don't think I could pull that off, but, I like it anyway, thank you

Lovetoride --- this horsegirl do you still ride?