Dinners.
Flowers.
Candles and such.

a gun

do it for him...maybe he will get the point..

if not a sledgehammer may help

If he can't figure it out himself, he's a dud.

try a "telly savalas" and see how that works for ya

i hate to say it but that dog is right

Woof woof homie. Woof woof.

How do you change someone?

Please fit into my little box of what I find acceptable and do as I say and not what is in your nature to do.

That should work...

Once upon a time there was a monkey and a fish.

The monkey was swinging from the trees and saw a fish, he was disturbed as he was sure the fish was drownding in the water below him.

The monkey swung down and spoke to the fish.

Monkey "Hey there fish, you need to get out of that water before you drown."

Fish "I'm fine where I am, but thank you for your concern monkey"

The monkey so distraught over the "drowning" fish, picked the fish up out of the water to "rescue" him.

The fish died.

Fish

Wrong thread Dan...

There are tons of guys who I know are interested in dating me whom I'm only very slightly interest towards. They all try to be uber nice and romantic. Getting me my favorite energies drinks out of the blue, roman candles (fireworks), buying me candy, giving me rides, or always wanting to go to shows with me even if they don't know the band.

I recently had a friend who lives in the far in the city on the south side who took the train back to the suburbs with me after a show just because he wanted to spend more time with me and make sure I got to the station safely. It was a really long ride back for him at 3am and he was dead tired too, but it was his idea so I didn't oppose. These guys do all the right **** and I could date any of them instantly.

My boyfriend is just so lame sometimes. He hasn't done anything romantic for me. I'm not asking for a lot either, just simple **** to show he cares. We just fool around a lot. Maybe I should stop being so affectionate physically?

Tell him.

Maybe you should date a guy who is what you want, and leave the one who isn't what you want alone to find someone to appreciate him for what he does offer in a relationship.

Just because you care about someone doesn't mean you have to date them.

If you aren't happy, neither is he.

Cut him lose to find his own happiness, and for you to find your own.

If it were me...I know, I'm a dude but that's not the point...I would pick the guy that stayed with you to make sure you got home safely. It's something like that that shows the person genuinely cares about your well being.

I really do admire a lot about him and I do want to continue dating him. But I just want him to be more romantic.. It would be foolish to dump him over something so trivial. I'm trying to think of ways that I can drop hints towards him to be more romantic.

Like I said he lives far in the city and I don't do long distance relationships.

Yes that is right. She needs to leave him and go out with me and find happiness

I got a gun.I can get rid of him for you if the price is right.

I don't know all the background info, but I'm assuming that he wasn't romantic or atleast not as romantic as you would like from the get-go. You shouldn't want or need to change someone. You love/like the person for who they are. Either accept him as he is or find someone else. It's not something trivial. If it bothers you now, it will bother you later down the road even more (believe me I know from experience). If he wants to change to be more romantic, then it has to be his choice.