amen sister kitty.

Kitten you are right It is about the heart and soul and how you can get
to know someone But how many of of actually done that I mean met someone
that they were not attracted to and ended up dating them? It's easy to
say but to actually do it is a whole new story It's not that i haven't
met some beautiful people because I have on this site It's just what i
hate is when people say they do this and they really don't

well said petitekitten




a quote from my profile "I think that the attractiveness of someone is
directly proportional to the positiveness of their personality."

I've done it in the past......I am not saying I don't find people
attractive, because I do. But I don't go by that as my first impression.

Amem,,,,so very true!!! A half all round perfect is real cool....if the
HEART, is REAL, and TRUE!!!!

To cute,,,is likely to NOT work out...
And to ruff on the eye, is SOMETIMES To GIVING and NOT "REAL"
LOVE,,but feeling TO sorry,,,

right again sister kitty. she knows lots about men, for those out there
that need advice. u better listen 2 her.

Yeah it's called don't judge a book by it's cover and I did myself my ex
wife I was not all that attracted to her but as time went on I saw
another person other then the outside But being on a site IL say 99% of
the time were looking for someone that were attracted to

i tend to meet someone with an open mind. I normally know within a very
short time though if that person is going to be a friend or if I would
like more. And alot of times I find that I go my gut and alot of people
are like... Whoaaa! I like someone thats real and has a real
personality. Not someone that has to put a show on for me and try to win
me over by being someone that they are not. They may not be attractive
to someone else but to me they are.

Damn! I wish I could quote here..

Phyical attaction is what matters!

I don't give a **** how nice she is..If she don't look good to
me...---Case closed!

I am saying this, knowing that I am not the best lookin guy in thw
world..(State..Province...County)..LMAO

But, If I don't look good to her, and, she don't look good to me..Why
should either one of us bother??

Stands to reason. don't it??

thank you bobby

my thoughts exactly...

Physical attraction and physically attractive resonate a little
differently with me.

Yes, there has to be physical attraction. Repulsion would not bode well
for an intimate relationship.

However, physical attractiveness - by societies standards - means little
to be.

I don't like plastic and artificial. Come to me with a soul of deep
character. Come to me with a curious mind. Come to me lit up from the
inside out. I will see you.

of course as long as they r not butt ugly even
tho beauty is only skin deep but it just can not be to deep

Hey! I might just be attracted to their ugliness.

Alot of times I am more attracted to the guys that are un
polished gems instead of well groomed model type guys..

& its just lil things that can melt me!

Physical appearances is important but I don't think it counts a lot as
compared to the virtues that the woman has. Beauty is in the eyes of the
beholder!

Personality is so important. I have a good friend who, at first glance,
would look rather plain. After getting to know her, though, I've found
her to be one of the most attractive women I know. Kind, caring,
intelligent, funny, etc., are traits that I find endearing, and they
color how physically attractive I find someone. By the same token, a
woman with stunning features will be unappealing to me if she's rude,
self-absorbed, immature, or kicks puppies for fun.

In what way?
It depends how you define
physical attractiveness.
For instance, some guys
might find huge boobs
attractive but I don't,
especially if they're fake.
Other guys might like a
gal that looks like an
anorexic model. Nope.

However, I don't have
any set rules on what
I would find attractive.
I think just about any
gal who doesn't look
like the Bride of Frankenstein
or the Elephant Woman could
be attractive to me.

I like petite women as
well as women who have
some meat on their bones,
as long as it's proportionate
to their height.

i hear a lot of dont judge a book by its cover thats all well and good.

but if you dont find some attraction in the other person thereis
probably a 99.9% chance that you will never talk to that person.

and just who decides what is physically attractive and what is not?

that is up to the person. what i find an attraction to you may not and
vice versus

of course i can !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!