On giving up .I am in this site for about 2 years now and never find anybody to match,never meet any guys.I have some guys in my M.match list for so long , one is from my area but only 24 years old ,the rest are from Canada.I email one of them and he said:''WTF you want from me? I am from Canada can't you see it?''Christmas coming up and believe or not I have no reason to go shopping .Kinda getting bored searching online for the one who can complete my life.Guess is time to go back with the old strategies .Somebody else having this feeling?

Everyday. But i stay cuz i have met some really great people and im addicted.

addiction is bad .we don't feel when time flying

Perhaps you are looking too hard.

I didn't look at all, and I found someone. Not here, but I found someone.

If you go into the game with the attitude that you need to find someone, you more than likely won't. Sit back, relax, and the most amazing things can happen. Just don't try too hard for them

Not me. I did find someone...but even if I hadn't......I love all my Mingle homies!!

Being on here just beats being bored and lonely at home,

You can talk to people from all over and its fun- this addiction is better than drugs or alcohol, or anything else out there.

some addictions can be good, maybe, and that is a big maybe. don't give up yet, you never know when the right window will open and reveal a whole new day!

I gave up looking and actually turn dates down and am very happy but still like to communicate and make friends.

Yeah, not so much for meeting 'that special someone' But I have alot of fun here. Who knows??

Definitely. Love the site, love the people, just wish there was someone datable here who wasn't 897,000 miles away.

I've learned that dating sites are not the answer for everybody.

I've been using this for a pretty long time 2, and seem to have no luck at all.


I like the forum though =]

have you ever NOT replied to someone who emailed you?

have you ever dismissed someone as not being attractive enough, interesting enough, too tall, too short, etc.?

perhaps that WAS mr. right and you walked right by without really even noticing him and giving him a chance?

can be

i even tried "gay bear date" and a retired circus grizzly bear rejected me.then h-date and someone with herpes rejected me...wtf

Just be glad it wasn't a gay bear with herpes who rejected you. There's not much farther down you can go from there.

That might be part of your problem right there, trying to find someone to complete your life. The only person who can do that is you! And when you do, only then is it possible to find someone that you can share it with.

yeah thats the bottom of the barrel there

I hear ya, I gave up looking some time back, but I have met some nice friends on here. Good luck in what ever you end up doing.