Well I see that you have been here for almost a year. Everyone has their own reasons for signing up but then after a while there are different reasons to stay.

Myself I have meet a lot of people that I have become friends with so leaving is not the option. I quit looking for someone along time ago. As far as mutual matches I have yet to have a date from this site from anyone that lives in my area.

I have met others that did not live around here but we ended up as only friends. Which is kewl for me and I have been here longer then 2 years. But I still enjoy the site and the people I get to talk to within the forums and through e-mail as well as on the phone. I actually look forward to the day that maybe someday I will be able to meet some of the friends I have met here.

You might reconsider your approach....

Think about it...Love never finds you when you are looking for it...It sneaks up and smacks you upside the head like a bag of hammers.

When you are actively seeking...generally all you find are flings and one night stands (At least that is true for me)

Think of this site as a place to socialize and well, mingle. If you accidentally find love here..GREAT! However, it is much more practical to just hang out with the fine people on here with no expectations or pressure. The unrealized expectations will only bring you down.

Just my take on it.

Great site

Great people

Havent met anyone yet

Just not my time right now, it will come