So it's official... i'm back on the market again.

It's sad, i really thought i found something good this time.. but i guess my search for a good guy is ongoing...

It takes some time.... Trust me I know. You'll find the right one. His heart can only be so far away. It'll work out. Patience is the key.....

Sorry to hear Pinky. It will get better with time.

I'm sure this will make 1,000,000 guys very happy to hear.

Sorry to hear about your breakup, but remember...if you look for the nerdy/geeky guys, you will find a keeper. Their are plenty on this site. Good luck.

i dont think i've ever cried like this over a guy..
it just hurts so bad because i know the feelings are still mutual ut we both agreed that the best thing to do was end it here so things weren't worse in february when it came time for him to move to virginia

Sorry. My best wishes to you. Some one special will find their way into your life. A good man is hard to find. But a hard man is good to find.

Don't move faster than you're ready to.

Seems to be a recurring theme

I'm sorry he's moved from you....I went through the same thing when I went to college and my girlfriend was going to be a Senior in High School. She was my first love and we left each other because of this. I still miss her to this day but, I'm over it. She'll always fill a void in my heart because I had her love at one time. Because it allowed me to know what love was.....

Wow! I mean, that is a mature thing to do, but at the same time, their is that chance he could come running back to you. I mean, you guys did this right before the holidays. Was that part of the convo? Doing it now so as to make the holidays not so hard?

In any case,

well, he's getting into the fire academy in VA beach right now... and when he gets out he automatically gets a job as paid fire fighter down there... so he's not coming back to new jersey...

we made this decision so we wouldn't get any closer than we are now, meaning going through thanksgiving and christmas... with the whole family thing and... he'd be leaving around valentine's day... which would make things 10 times worse... i mean it hurts now, like i've been crying all night, havent slept... but if we would've stayed together i could only imagine how i would feel then

Hang in there Pinky, it will get better!

Welcome back

Whick market are you on - Nasdaq, American or Big Board? And what's the IPO price point?

Sorry it imploded honey. You're a great girl.

Well, most people wouldn't have made a mature choice like that. Especially if you felt that strong for one another. So yeah...it would have been hella tough.

Welcome back

Don't sweat it Pink! Trust me....in retrospect, I am so happy that all of my former attempts at love fell through. I am happy as hell that those who cheated on me or dumped me did that very thing...it freed me up for the love of my life....I waited 16 years for it...but, when the real deal is right there in your arms all the past heartache and lonelyiness is soooooooo worth it. Just consider it a chance at finding the one and not wasting your time with something that was just not meant to be.

{{pinky}} You will find the right one, I did, after lots of searching.

there's a market ??? damn...nobody ever tells me these things...

I heard there was a sale on men at walmart@@@@!!! Im checking the underwear section!!!