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you discovered that your significant other was contemplating having an affair, but had not actually had one?
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Cut his nuts off as an incentive for him not to go through with his plans.
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ask them why and ask them to please end the relationship 1st
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cut it off before he did lol joking it would be his lost and i don't think he would be interested in another if he's happy at home
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Have an honest discussion with him, find out what's going on that isn't working between us, if we had a problem that couldn't be solved, he'd not be the S/O anymore and would need to go on with his affair.
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Ask him nothing...tell him nothing....for your own sake....find someone that you can trust implicitly...Consider him a learning experience..disconnect the dots...be on your way. You will never completely trust him again.
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Figure out what I could do better to keep his attention. I'm not saying always......but sometimes men stray because women let them feel unappreciated.
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Cut his nuts off as an incentive for him not to go through with his plans. Id go with that then set down & try to hash out why hes feeling that way.
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Ask him nothing...tell him nothing....for your own sake....find someone that you can trust implicitly...Consider him a learning experience..disconnect the dots...be on your way. You will never completely trust him again. I'm not sure that is necessarily true. Who hasn't at least thought about the grass being greener on the other side at some point in their life? It's when they actually go through with it that trust is lost. |
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Edited by
hunky62
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Mon 11/17/08 04:56 PM
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And how...may I ask would you bcome aware of someones intentions...or thought about having an affair in the first place?? Wouldn't that person have to openly confess...or at least discuss the fact that they wer contemplating such an act.
Thus...they have been open and honest about their feelings and therefore put forth the subject for discussion...which is the first place to start if there is to be mutually acceptable resolution to the sutuation. |
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Ask him nothing...tell him nothing....for your own sake....find someone that you can trust implicitly...Consider him a learning experience..disconnect the dots...be on your way. You will never completely trust him again. I'm not sure that is necessarily true. Who hasn't at least thought about the grass being greener on the other side at some point in their life? It's when they actually go through with it that trust is lost. You are indeed correct Heather...it is not necessarily true. For me, however...I ask for nothing that I do not willingly give. I am an absolutely loyal kind of guy. I expect no less from my true love. I would put up with that from a friend not from a love. But, then I ain't a forgiving sort. |
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Hmm I don't know, my wife went through with her plans for an affair.
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Hmm I don't know, my wife went through with her plans for an affair. Mine too...not a whole lot of contemplating to discuss. |
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And how...may I ask would you bcome aware of someones intentions...or thought about having an affair in the first place?? Wouldn't that person have to openly confess...or at least discuss the fact that they wer contemplating such an act. Thus...they have been open and honest about their feelings and therefore put forth the subject for discussion...which is the first place to start if there is to be mutually acceptable resolution to the sutuation. Let's say you came across an email they wrote to someone and that's how you found out. |
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Did anyone see the movie Premonition? The husband was going to cheat and then changed his mind at the last minute.
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In that case...the cheating has already taken place...since the deceit is cheating...the trust is already broken. The physical act is just the consumation of the deal.
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I think it would depend on how far it went. Temptation is thrown at everyone and simply thinking about it would not be cheating. However, I think ongoing communication with the person you were thinking of cheating with would probably be as hurtful as going through with the physical act.
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Did you ever see the movie "Unfaithful"...how the most trajic events could be avoided if only the "right" decision had been made.
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you discovered that your significant other was contemplating having an affair, but had not actually had one? We,ve all fantasized. Carrying it out is another thing. |
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Did you ever see the movie "Unfaithful"...how the most trajic events could be avoided if only the "right" decision had been made. Yes. Good movie and good point. |
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