Here I am, sitting in my room...trying (not too hard) to do a formal report for one of my classes...I know sounds fun right...wondering why in the world I can't find someone that I am attracted to and that is attracted to me?! I am 34 and have been single for 6 years now. I have a son 14 and a daughter 10. I am partially educated (working on that part), have a big badonckadonck, curves (well, maybe too many curves lol!), a pretty good personality when you get to know me and I wonder what in the world it will take to find that 'someone'. UGH! I am sick of being the 'extra' girl...if you ladies know what I mean. Everyone I know has a significant other...then there's me. Sigh...do guys really only want skinny girls with no kids? I myself am looking for a tall, dark, and handsome man with some meat on his bones, with or without kids, who is not crazy. Is that really so much to ask? Ladies, do you feel the same way in your area? Do you have trouble meeting guys and then when you finally do meet one and you are attracted to him you find out that he isn't attracted to you? OR...there are guys that hit on you but they are never your type? Guys, do you have the same problem? If so, why in the world is it so hard? Are all the good ones really taken? Are we destined to stay single the rest of our lives?!! (ok...maybe that was over the top...lol!)

Yep.

Just the rest of us are left.

yes

Lol ...ya'll really give me hope!!

No, all the good ones are not taken. but, they are in short supply.

a nice guy like you should have no problem finding misses right!!!!
keep your chin up fella!!!

I could have sworn the OP was a woman

She is. Obviously. Someone is not being nice.

Last time I checked I was a female... ....you think that's the problem? Lol!!!! I didn't think I looked like a man but hell...maybe I need to take a closer look!!

You don't. And, you're very pretty. Pay no attention to the boys here.

Thanks!

Not hardly lilbit. (sorry don't know your name). You're a beautiful woman and any man would be lucky to meet you. Did you ever think that maybe, just maybe, this was God's plan for you? I mean, maybe His plan was for you to be a dedicated mother to your children while in their younger years and for you to further your education while being single. Who knows, now that they are older, He might have something new in store for you. Don't give up hope. When the time is right, the right man will come along.

I mean...good ones...define...what makes a person a good one

Thanks Ms Carmen..I appreciate that...yes, I did consider that...but durn..6 years...I have to keep reminding myself that HE knows what's best!

oooh lighten up!!!!
geeesz!!!your as pretty as new lawnmower ma'am!!! ***for what its worth***

If all the "good ones" are taken then that means all of us still single aren't worth taking...
I refuse to believe that personally and on behalf of all the very cool people I've met at M2. We are just still waiting...

Etrain...just decent...someone that doesn't cheat, steal, lie about everything, drink to excess, or do drugs, is a responsible, caring human being. I am old enough to know that no one is perfect...not even myself but, someone that can show some common decency and not willingly hurt someone else.

Yeah. What she said.

I Mannequins

Why do you live so far away, my friend?