A lot of Men are Sexual. For a lot of Men,they would like to be this way with a Woman. Some of the problem is that Woman want to change something that is natural for a Man. Of course the more a Man is denied, the more intense He gets. I think a Woman has too learn how too use the sexual nature of a Man, in a positve way. Not use it against Him as a Punishment.
The commitment will be there depending on the way you present yourself, and the way you allow yourself to be treated.
I think most Woman, and Men need too take more time too understand each other, and what they expect from each other.
For me, i do not want to be in a relationship, where i have to deny myself, or be denied Intimacy. The biggest turn on to me is a intelligent Woman, but the turn on is going too lead to Sex, or making love, or @$#%^&*

Yes, the one percent thing was a poor attempt to add some humor and keep the topic light. However, I do think that even though it's humorous, it might be true, I mean stranger things have turned out to be true.

I do enjoy sex...but the one time where the relationship was strictly about sex--and she set it up that way--I didn't really enjoy it.

It wasn't enough for me. So I can't relate to the "no emotions, no commitment" part of your post.

I think is has to do with the ease and frequency that men start having sex when they get hitched.?????Women are less of a mystery and more of a conquest..men let me know if I gave too much away
Dangerdave out

Sadly when most men look at a woman of a certain age he sees her as a sexual object like all woman he sees but he also thinks that because you are older you do not get sex anymore and with that thought in his mind he thinks that you will be so please that he is interested in you that you will jump in bed with him no question ask and that excites him even more.

So in a short when he looks at you he sees a piece of meat begging to be eaten.

My humble opinion.

Dayum--is THAT what's really happening? UGH!!

Ok I hope more men comment on this "meat" thing.
Men look at women like a piece of hanging meat to eat us. Oh my goodness this makes me never want to have sex again.
I hope to goodness this is just your opinion on sex and not the typical male's view.

What are you talking about Lillith? You are a knockout!

I don't look at women as sexual objects for the most part, though I see other men around me do it all the time. It kinda offends me when I see it and wonder if there is something wrong with me that I don't behave the same.

I grew up in a family of women with no male role models and I was taught respect for women from day one. I guess I'm doomed to be wierd.

Men are dogs.

Ever watch dogs?

get the hose

Now that I'm over 40, with one failed marriage under my belt and no kids, whats left?
I'd like to be with someone in my age range, but none of them wanting kids ( too risky ) So, whats my other option a 27 yr. old? ( too wild ) whats my only other option...Sex..with a relationship as a bonus and still no family of my own. So what do I get out of this? the knowledge that I can still make her weak at the knees and lots of O*****'S.
I still want that 27yr. old..and keep my dream alive.

maybe the men you meet are just in the mood!I have to say, sex enters my mind on a day to day basis.Maybe it your luck,your lucky!

We havent changed much since the cave man day is what you are saying!

Lets face it folks when we see someone of the opposite sex we deem hot,sexy ,or desirable we already are viewing that person as a sex object so to speak age doesn't matter.

I'm new to this, be kind please :)

If men view all women as potential sex partners - what makes the difference between 'just sex' and sex/friendship, sex/relationship?

Getting older makes it more difficult to distinguish - and more difficult to find someone who wants more than 'just sex or sex friendship'.

Some women, really like sex - especially if with someone you feel an emotional tie with.

The difference is that with just sex, you don't have to talk to them, sex/friendship you really should talk to them, and sex/relationship they don't want to talk to you!

Okay, so I'm not so serious about it. Still kinda new at this sex stuff.

Sex is an affirmation of life. I think as some men get older they need that more and more. However if they look past you (the person), it's their loss. :)

Agreed.

Sometimes men are overly honest. I think the wrong word was used in this situation. No women wants to be a piece of meat to a guy, but would you mind being referred to as a fine wine or breathtaking sunset? Right idea wrong choice of words...

and btw... maybe the older you get the more sexy you become, it happens.

Thanks for the insight.

To the ladies who feel like a 'piece of meat'. Think of yourself as a prime cut :)

Be assured that you are not - and neither are men. Most of us are sentient beings - and are just seeking human contact and comfort.