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Topic: Why do guys never call?
symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Thu 10/23/08 06:02 PM


Suprasgstav Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 1	Thu 10/23/08 07:40 PM
Maybe because we don't want to talk, unless we are drunk.

elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Thu 10/23/08 10:54 PM
Why do guys say they like you and will call you and days go bye and they don't? I just think that is plain wrong!!!! I have spoken, emailed, or chatted/cammed with ljcc1964 everyday except ONE since we started talking back in early June. Even right now that I'm working 6 days on, one off, 10-12 hour days, we still talk, albeit not as much. We have a two hour time difference between us, and up until this week when I temporarily changed from working 3 on, 4 off to what I'm working now... We ended our nights talking on the phone for at least an hour a night, and end the calls at around my midnight or so. But now that I'm getting off work somewhere between 12:30 and 2:30 in the morn, I miss her like crazy..

LOON128 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 7	Fri 10/24/08 02:16 PM
For Me Its The DRAMA Thing, Curious About Extra Baggage, If They Are Really Telling You The Truth, Ive been Told So Many Things & Later Found Out That It Was All Lies. If Your Going To Go As Far To Get Thier # Why Would You Try And Sugar Coat Your True Life Situation To Make People Think Your someone Your Not?????

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 10/24/08 10:57 PM
Why do guys say they like you and will call you and days go bye and they don't? I just think that is plain wrong!!!! I have spoken, emailed, or chatted/cammed with ljcc1964 everyday except ONE since we started talking back in early June. Even right now that I'm working 6 days on, one off, 10-12 hour days, we still talk, albeit not as much. We have a two hour time difference between us, and up until this week when I temporarily changed from working 3 on, 4 off to what I'm working now... We ended our nights talking on the phone for at least an hour a night, and end the calls at around my midnight or so. But now that I'm getting off work somewhere between 12:30 and 2:30 in the morn, I miss her like crazy.. I told you I was going to take out the restraining order if you stop calling me!!!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 10/24/08 11:35 PM
I say don't worry about it and concentrate on the one who does call you. That's what I'm doing and I know it works cause he's still calling.

cindym76 Joined Mon 10/27/08 Posts: 18	Thu 10/30/08 09:00 AM
Hi everyone!! I am new to this website, and this is the first time I have ever tried to meet men, or should I say (where R all the good men at?) I hate when a guy says he will call back and NEVER does. WHY?

johnyou35 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 25	Mon 11/10/08 08:25 AM
i gave a few women my number lately, and they Never call. heck, they don't even write back. guess i'm just unattractive. :-(

johnyou35 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 25	Mon 11/10/08 08:25 AM Edited by johnyou35 on Mon 11/10/08 08:32 AM
Oops. double post. sorry.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 11/10/08 08:26 AM
They don't call because they don't want to.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 11/10/08 08:36 AM
precisely They don't call because they don't want to.

hunky62 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1894	Mon 11/10/08 09:43 AM
precisely They don't call because they don't want to. REALLY!...it is just that simple...LOL

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Mon 11/10/08 09:44 AM Edited by michiganman3 on Mon 11/10/08 09:46 AM
If the phone is not ringing, thats me not calling. Don't you dare Quote me!!!!

jeffmov Joined Sun 08/10/08 Posts: 32	Mon 11/10/08 10:06 AM
Some guys do that but if you exchanged numbers why don't you call him? i don't give my number out- unless i get theirs. YA YOU DO

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 11/10/08 10:08 AM
Some guys do that but if you exchanged numbers why don't you call him? i don't give my number out- unless i get theirs. YA YOU DO Then there are folks who don't even ask for your number...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 11/10/08 10:11 AM
It's possible some guys just are not interested

jeffmov Joined Sun 08/10/08 Posts: 32	Mon 11/10/08 10:12 AM
Some guys do that but if you exchanged numbers why don't you call him? i don't give my number out- unless i get theirs. YA YOU DO Then there are folks who don't even ask for your number... OH that wasnt nice

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 11/10/08 10:13 AM
sometimes I take someone's number just to shut them up sometimes I dont ask for their number, they give it and assume I'd call sometimes I want the number and I dont get it sometimes I get the wrong number why ask why ask why ask why ask why??

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Mon 11/10/08 10:25 AM
Some guys do that but if you exchanged numbers why don't you call him? i don't give my number out- unless i get theirs. YA YOU DO want to make something of it? lol no really i normally don't give it out unless i get theirs maybe not first but I WILL get their number!!

stuart420 Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 454	Mon 11/10/08 10:28 AM
Well don't judge us all for the act's of a few F-Sticks... I always call when I say I will....If I don't want to call Ya, I will be the first to tell ya......