Okay, so I started a new job and my Ex works there. I didn't know until my second day there...and I refuse to quit. Thing is, he truly was the first guy I was "in love" with and he's kinda "courting" me now...being all sweet and lovey with me...so what do I do? If he wants to try again, do I? Or do I run like hell and never look back??

well to be honest, that is totally up to u. some times a relationships r best left ended. But i honestly think it depends on how it was and how it endede

Sounds very awkward to me...
good luck!

Honestly, he just walked out one day...no notice or nothing...just kissed me goodbye before I went to work in the morning and was gone when I got home. The relationship was pretty good for the most part...'cept for the whole leaving thing. Ans it was the best sex I've ever had...we were always really good friends too...still are, but it's akward...

I am not gonna go there

All I will say at times if you have to question it then there is something inside of you that is wondering yourself if it will work. One will never know if they keep wondering and don't try to see. Been there and thought about it once and did meet back up with him but even then I finally realized he did not want what I really wanted but it was worth the try anyway. At least now I know and don't have to wonder about it.

true...very true...can't be any worse trying that feeling this confusion...

1st thing is to make sure it does not affect your job. I'd keep looking for another job in case it turns ugly. IF he offers an explaination & apology I'd listen, but not swallow it hook line & sinker. If he wants to pretend like nothing happened, I'd be cival but cool. He owes you an explaination. A real man would say "I want to talk to you but not at work. Would you please meet me for coffee?"

Nope! You are working with him now and that it could seriously backfire on you.
Reflect on the break-up, was it mutual or was it nasty? He could be setting you up.

funny you say that...he asked me Friday if we could go to coffee cometime this week...maybe I should...

When my wife left, and later thru her friend had dropped hints she wanted back and would I take her...i said fool me once shame on you and on you fool me twice shame on me.
Since it is the same work place stay repsectfull but dont go back or let him back into your heart. If you guys break up again and you still work together it wont be easy and usually the clicks at work will work against one of you later and it may become a hostile work place. Its human nature that either your a friend or an enemy. Most people cant be friends after a break up, and he left for reasons and with little communication evidently. So your incontrol of your destiny. Good for you was not good for him. He is looking for the familiar, but doesnt seem to weigh why / what it was he wasnt happy enough to stay, so hes probably only thinking with his second head. He screwed up, oh well.

I've been in the same situation except it was three ex's. That was pretty fantastic

To work with three people that you know hate you. Saves the time of figuring out who does and doesn't

your instincs tell you everything ya need to know.

listen to them.

your instincs tell you everything ya need to know.

listen to them.

your instincs tell you everything ya need to know.

listen to them.

your instincs tell you everything ya need to know.

listen to them.

Me personally, I would never go there again. Then again, I don't know if your talking ex husband or ex boyfriend. Either way, I'm not sure it's anything I would chance losing a job over. Those are hard to come by these days.