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i guess in heat of moment....we fell in love and i didnt see alot of things at 1st.....then as time went on, and i had a 5 person familt to take care of....i started to feel the stress financially....
then we talked about counseling...but i seen that at the time, as another bill, and i felt ****...im a good guy...i dont need counseling...and when i say good guy...read my profile, ive updated it |
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Good people need counseling. You can't be objective about yourself. Counseling isn't to fix things. It is to SEE things.
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She is most likely the same person you married. Getting mad at her now for being the person you married is not okay. Why didn't you get premarital counseling? and to be honest...i didnt even know of a re-marital counseling service...b4 her, i never even considered marrying anyone.... |
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Lilith step away from the soap box, step away - there's only so many ways to say the same thing
but maybe I dont understand |
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I can't help it. You are right, Fran. And it's a milk crate, lol.
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now im confused.....lol...oh well, i guess it will all come to me in time....
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Regardless you can talk on here till the moon turns purple until you sit and talk with her and try to work things out it will not make a difference if your marriage works or not. That is up to you and her only. Talk is cheap actions speak louder than any words could possibly do.
Ohh and hitting the bars don't make things right either!! 
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Regardless you can talk on here till the moon turns purple until you sit and talk with her and try to work things out it will not make a difference if your marriage works or not. That is up to you and her only. Talk is cheap actions speak louder than any words could possibly do. Ohh and hitting the bars don't make things right either!!
i know....and i did that at 1st...but took me only 2 times to realize it wasnt what i needed....thanks everyone |
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Why im single,
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 seems like u and goof got sumthin special hittin! lol Goof is my manwhore. He and I are friends, nothing more. But glad you laughed at our antics. LMAO....Sumthin special hittin?
Manwhores need love too ya know. 
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everyone is telling me to go get her.....what about every web site dealing with relationship issues....they all tell me to give her space and time... she tells me she needs space and somwe time to thini things thru now...weve been talking, and she knows i made a mistake now, and she said she needs some time and soace...should i still go to her? is if she tells me she needs time and space?? space - I vote for space 
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everyone is telling me to go get her.....what about every web site dealing with relationship issues....they all tell me to give her space and time... she tells me she needs space and somwe time to thini things thru now...weve been talking, and she knows i made a mistake now, and she said she needs some time and soace...should i still go to her? is if she tells me she needs time and space?? space - I vote for space
i agree...its what she says she needs...so why should t i care enuff to give her what she needs.....and if i rush or push...i could be rushing or pushing her even further away... |
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Honestly man, you might feel you made a mistake, but you also told her, encouraged her, to get her education going or to work PT. I don't think that is alot to ask. If she is/was trying to do these things and wasn't getting any results, then that is one thing. If she wasn't making an effort to help, then that is another thing. You told her how you felt, and yeah you are stressed out about money. Hell, who isn't these days. But she has to see that you can't do it all. A marriage/relationship is 100/100 and she needed to help out where she could. I'm sure she is a great person if you love her that much (which I can see you do). But tough times call for doing things and doing them as fast as you can. I want to tell you to go to her, but in all honesty, I can't. If she wants time and space, then I think you should give that to her. Not saying give up on her either, but their is a chance that if you go to her that it could make things worse. She needs to get her head straight and she needs to realize that you two are in this together. I wish you all the best man. Absolutely agree with this! 
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Let's revive this one so we can endlessly provide thoughtful advice to this one, too.
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*bump* wont participate subject all talked out but will bump it up to hear how condenscending I am *bump*
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*bump* wont participate subject all talked out but will bump it up to hear how condenscending I am *bump* You bad.
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who me
have already been called condenscending on part 2 of this thread only bumping it 
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who me
have already been called condenscending on part 2 of this thread only bumping it
Okay. I'll call you condescending on this thread too.
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yeah but I like the way you say it
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well. im simple minded and uneducated..
hehehe i wanna be condescending.. 
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