Topic: What should I do?
jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:18 AM
i love all u guys....thanks for all the wonderful advice....its helped me alot...i was sitting at my desk....and about to loose it..not go crazy...just emotions where tearing me up inside.....

lilith401's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:19 AM
Maybe you should go grab a drink.

no photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:21 AM
sorry...but I read your story, and "Golddigger" kept popping into my mind....I think you need to step away from your feelings and take a real, hard look at what happened to you and your "fast, fast" relationship....

move on before you loose everything...

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:21 AM
they do....and now u prob see...i really am in love...and i know i made a misatake...

i mean i just want to talk and work it out with her...

but for instance me..ive been sittin home thinking things thru....im a single dad too, have a 2 year old....so we have been home thinking things theru....and clearing my mind...

but she has been going out with friends....and i dont feel that a good way to think things thru...its a good way to heal...but thinking things thru???/

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:23 AM

sorry...but I read your story, and "Golddigger" kept popping into my mind....I think you need to step away from your feelings and take a real, hard look at what happened to you and your "fast, fast" relationship....

move on before you loose everything...


i thought about that as well....but u can tell after a year, if someone is fakin love...and i know she loves me....maybe at beggining.....but i know she does or did love me

franshade's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:23 AM
did those 4 women throw themselves at you at home?

listen to your inner conscience, follow your gutt. good luck

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:25 AM

did those 4 women throw themselves at you at home?

listen to your inner conscience, follow your gutt. good luck



well 2 of them did.....we wnt to my place....and had a drink...i was in mad mode then....thinkin i was gonna get over my wife....and yea...pretty much thrw themselves on me,.....and i thought i could do it...but couldnt.....

lilith401's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:25 AM
Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?

Goofball73's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:26 AM

Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


Why can't I be this guy??laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:27 AM


Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


Why can't I be this guy??laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


i sure wish u where there...cause one left crying, and i tried explaining it wasnt her.....

no photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:27 AM

Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


easy way to get laid...:tongue:

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:27 AM
but then i found out...thats the worst thng to tell a woman,,,it isnt you its me! ....

franshade's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:27 AM

Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


I'm trying to be good, figured I'd at least give it a try... frustrated

All the time!!! especially if they make almost 100K/yr - frustrated

I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good

franshade's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:28 AM


Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


Why can't I be this guy??laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

tag you're it Goof! :smile:

Goofball73's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:29 AM


Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


I'm trying to be good, figured I'd at least give it a try... frustrated

All the time!!! especially if they make almost 100K/yr - frustrated

I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good



*cough.."GOLDDIGGER"...cough*:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

franshade's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:29 AM



Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


Why can't I be this guy??laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


i sure wish u where there...cause one left crying, and i tried explaining it wasnt her.....


rofl rofl
ding ding ding ding we have a weiner

previously professed love for his wife, he couldnt act upon these women because of his love for his wife... now recanting :laughing:

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:29 AM


Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


I'm trying to be good, figured I'd at least give it a try... frustrated

All the time!!! especially if they make almost 100K/yr - frustrated

I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good



$100k??? I said $98,000 from my full time...lol..i make about $70k more form my online bizz...and im trying to start up a Edicational Organization now to help homeless, youthful offenders, ex cons and single parents get FREE IT and/or Engineering related classes...and then job placement services...all free! Dont u think people need more oppurtunity inn America???

franshade's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:30 AM
Edited by franshade on Wed 10/15/08 11:30 AM



Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


I'm trying to be good, figured I'd at least give it a try... frustrated

All the time!!! especially if they make almost 100K/yr - frustrated

I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good
I will be good



*cough.."GOLDDIGGER"...cough*:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


and boy is there a lot of digging to be done here
- :laughing: jmo (full of dung)

lilith401's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:30 AM
Goof.... Aww. I can't do it. I'd get in trouble.

(Insert filthy x rated dialogue here)

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:30 AM




Fran, I often throw myself at morose men in bars who are upset over their wives. I just walk up and say, "take me home"? Don't you?


Why can't I be this guy??laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


i sure wish u where there...cause one left crying, and i tried explaining it wasnt her.....


rofl rofl
ding ding ding ding we have a weiner

previously professed love for his wife, he couldnt act upon these women because of his love for his wife... now recanting :laughing:


what was i recanintg?? I didnt i dont think...i still couldnt sleep with anyone else...