girl that you want a baby with her?
are you serious?
do you just want to trap her?
or do you really want a baby???

thanks.

okay, I really do think I need to go to bed now. I cant even remember the threads anymore. Sorry Maureen

Good night.




******And people wonder why I don't drink

Unless you are married or going to be, dont.

Maureeno, is there a ring on your finger?

look how long have you been with the man,for awhile then talk babies

with all due respect. i thank you ladies for your imput but i wish i could hear from more guys about this.

guys, can you tell me what you think also. thanks.

hi winx,
naturally if i was married with a ring on my finger i would not even ask this question so the answer is no :)

common i know that there are alot of guys out here tonight. can you share with me what you think. :)

Honestly I don't know a guy that would openly say that...I know I sure as the hell wouldn't, it could be some masterful ploy...but we are just men, don't throw us too much slack in the planning department. Honestly I don't have a clue, I've never heard a guy say he wanted a kid.

I'm 43. You won't hear them words from me.

I agree that it has to be a ploy, maybe to make you think he is husband material or some nonsense but unless you have gone together awhile and planning a life together and that could be part of it then it makes no sense other than to be some good guy image he is trying to project without earning.

Uhh... someone's got some serious issues there, as there ain't a man alive who'd willingly say he'd wanna have a baby. That's the ultimate ball-and-chain if I ever did hear one.

Then...why would you considerate it?

Then...why would you considerate it?



very good question. i guess am looking at my age and all. you know women tend to get into midlife crisis and they began to ponder thoughts they would not entertain at 20. i wish to be married but it looks like so far away. what do you think?

I'm an old biker lookin for retirement. Not babies and diapers and putting someone through college in my golden years. Sheesh!

very good question. i guess am looking at my age and all. you know women tend to get into midlife crisis and they began to ponder thoughts they would not entertain at 20. i wish to be married but it looks like so far away. what do you think?


I understand what you're feeling. I was older when I had my child.

There is a good chance that you would be raising your child by yourself in this situation. That is something to think about. Could you handle that?

No babies! Ugh! Put em away!

I raised my daughter by myself and it was the most rewarding thing I ever did. But I didn't use it as a ploy to trap a woman. Not all men think it is a ultimate ball-and-chain, at least not those who go get beyond their own self-interest, but it should not be taken lightly, as a bargaining chip, or a way to trap anyone. If its anything other than a commitment to that baby to be there for it unselfishly and to dedicate yourself and time then you have no business doing it. How's that for an opinion.

A. Means we want sex.
B. Yes, we are serious, but stupid.
C. No, we don't want to trap her.
D. Maybe.