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Topic: Jesus, How long does it take??
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Tue 09/30/08 07:24 AM

Ive asked a few girls out now either from here or eharmony and have been talking with them for the shortest time is a month and the longest is three months and they say not yet, they want to talk to me more fire. How the heck long do you need to talk to somone......2 years??


Tell me what Jesus tells you, I'd like to know as well.

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Tue 09/30/08 07:25 AM


Ive asked a few girls out now either from here or eharmony and have been talking with them for the shortest time is a month and the longest is three months and they say not yet, they want to talk to me more fire. How the heck long do you need to talk to somone......2 years??


Tell me what Jesus tells you, I'd like to know as well.


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Tue 09/30/08 07:26 AM

Ive asked a few girls out now either from here or eharmony and have been talking with them for the shortest time is a month and the longest is three months and they say not yet, they want to talk to me more fire. How the heck long do you need to talk to somone......2 years??


Everyone is different, there have been people who I have talked to and met right away, and there are some that I waited to meet.

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Tue 09/30/08 07:34 AM
I've been talking to one chick for about 5 months and I haven't even see a picture of her... nor do I want to because it may ruin the friendship lol



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Tue 09/30/08 07:34 AM


I thought the whole point of being here was to meet in person. If they don't want to meet after exchanging a couple emails personally I would lose interest.


I find it a little quick if someone wants to meet after one or two emails. Then again, I really haven't found anyone close by that I'd actually want to meet.


No No No, I agree, Two emails is by far to soon, but a couple dozen emails over 2 or 3 months, come on, you can get a gist of who someone is

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Tue 09/30/08 07:35 AM
He can't get anyone to want to meet him: Complain, complain, complain.

Someone wants to meet him, but she's too fat/too skinny/too pretty/not pretty enough/has kids/doesn't like kids/doesn't like cleaning game: Complain, complain, complain.

He meets someone and she turns out to be a scammer who ruins his life: Complain, complain, complain.

And you wonder why no one wants to meet you.

Here is a big newsflash: If one of the ladies who is currently still talking to you after three months doesn't want to meet you yet, then obviously she has something more promising going on that hasn't turned into a relationship yet. So in the meantime she's going to keep talking to you because it's better than nothing.

If you were a friend of mine (and there's scarcely any way that could ever be, but IF): I would tell you to move on. Stop talking to these women, put some more bait on your hook, and keep casting.

yours in Chaos, Scarlett

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