So a friend of mine and myself had an argument because he said that girls want a guy that is a challange, one that isnt gonna be the guy who will do everything for them and is all mr nice all the time, he said women want a bad boy someone who can be an ass somtimes, and I argued that most do, but im sure there are some that dont, and he said they all do.....so whats your opinion?

No No No, I agree, Two emails is by far to soon, but a couple dozen emails over 2 or 3 months, come on, you can get a gist of who someone is

im ready to give up all together, it seems like a waste!!

Ive asked a few girls out now either from here or eharmony and have been talking with them for the shortest time is a month and the longest is three months and they say not yet, they want to talk to me more fire. How the heck long do you need to talk to somone......2 years??

I agree with all thje repsonses, i would say 90% of men out there are a$$holes, and you have to find the right one. Women are the same. Now Im 23 and want to find someone who has a kid, I love kids and Im ready for Kids, its the women that are not ready for that in a relatioship or a relationship period!!

Wow I havent even heard of some of these

It has nothing to do with confidence, its just that I can talk to anyone cause thats my job, and because im usually talking to them about something they did wrong, but in public im trying to pick someone up and I dont know the right avenue or approach

your funny

Ive been on eharmony for 10 months and finally I cancelled it, its expensive, Ive been on a mess load of dates, but I get people who arent serious, people who cant make up their mind, people who think im to nice, which i didnt know could happen but found out it is such a thing. Match.com and yahoo personals I felt had to many fake accounts of people who didnt exist. So what do you like, and what have you had experience with?

Ok I have a hugh problem and dont know what to do to overcome it, maybe some guys or girls have had the same problem. I can not, and Ive tried, can not let me repeat can not go up to a girl in public and talk to her let alone ask her on a date or number or anything. I cant even talk, my mouth freezes. All my friends laugh they say its so easy, and I should have no problems with it, they try to tell me to pretend im writing them a ticket. And thats the funny thing, If Im in uniform at work, I can go to anyone and talk to them and be an officer, but as soon as im in reg clothers, i cant do anything. Does anyone have any advice on what I can do to get over this? THanks

If you do, any predicitons? If you watched tonights show, there was a few things I found funny! THe little girl who sang 2nd, when she was trying to hold up her two fingers for her position to vote, she stuck up her middle finger, the camera went off of her, and when they came back it was her two fingers, and David Hasselhoff started to cry tonight and at the ending credits, spring said I have an editoral ****, I mean comment! Too funny!! But any predicitions or who you want to win?

I want someone who likes to do alot of the same things I do. How would you rephrase that then?

Well not really from Chicago, Im in the northern Suburbs of Chicago. Always looking to meet new people, and looking for someone special! Talk at ya soon

Kris

Thanks never thought about that. I posted some pictures of My puppy and Me, His name is Bubba. Hes a 4 yr old boston Terrier

Ive been on here for a while, and also was on eharmony for 11 months, and still no luck. Is their something wrong in my profile, or is this site not very active with people. Any help would be appreciated!

Kris