Heres a little about me. I have alot of direction with myself, my career, and my goals. I want someone that is the same as me. Along with all of that I feel I am very mature, and lets face it, alot of people dont have any of that. Im hoping someone does.
I want someone witha crazy side to them; But of course theirs a time and place to know when you can let that loose, and i think a person with a good judge of character will know that. I grew up in Round Lake Beach, which is very nice because I know alot of the people. I attended Carmel Catholic High School in Mundelein. My parents got divorced when I was 15, and when I graduated high school my mom, brother, and I moved into wisconsin. I eventally moved back to Illinois on my own, and have been on my own ever since. I have a townhouse in Grayslake and like where Im at. I have a really good job, I work full time for the Police Department I also work for Comcast cable as a sales auditor. I really love the job, because I get to interact with peopleand I also like how every call is not the same, and it can turn in a matter of a second. Ive seen alot, and really enjoy it. Plus its good job security. People are always gonna be stupid and do stupid things.
Now onto some of my favorites: My favorite movies would be anything that is funny. I really havent watched to many movies, but My all time favorite is Rush Hour and my favorite Christmas movie is Home Alone. My favorite food is probably shrimp, crab and lobster. I also love fresh fruit. I have two favorite resturants, the Melting pot, and Tsukasa. Both places have really good food.
On the weekends, I like to do alot of things, I usually like to try to go check out a local live band, go out crusing on the motorcycle, spend time out on the water. Im really lucky at the Police dept because Im off Fridays, Saturdays, and I dont work sunday til 3pm. I will pretty much try anything as long as im having fun.
Now What I am looking for and what I want is a serious relationship! I tend to get hurt alot, because I put my heart on my sleeve. Its hard, because so far everyone Ive met, either is no where close to being stable enough to be in relationship, or straight up wants someone different that who I am. I had one girl tell me that she doesnt know what it is about them, but she loves the bad guys who get in trouble with the law, and who just doesnt have much going for them. I was like ummm ok.
I want to get married and have a family, but I want it to be with somene who wants to as well, somene who can be my best friends, and who is willing to work off of eachother to make each of us a better person. But for me, I want someone who knows what they want in life, has goals, like to be adventourous and try new things. Outgoing, funny, and def someone who cna let loose. I like to go out dancing sometimes on the weekends, thats a big plus as well. Someone who isnt afraid of powersports, going boating or out for a ride on the motorcycle. And someone who wont lie, believes in Communication, and wont play games. I hate games. Also some people have had problems with who I was because of my job, so the person I am looking for has to accept my career.
I would like if your upfront and honest, thats a big key to having a succesful relationship. I was raised by a very good mother who taught me old school ms and values. I was raised on chivarly, and it seems to me to alot of people, chivarly is dead, but I was raised on it so that I will continue to do. I want to find someone, I want to get marriend, have a family. I often say I may be young and 24, but how many 24yr olds do you know live on their own, have 2 full time jobs, owns all their own stuff, mommy and daddy didnt buy me anything. Im very mature and successful for me age, your not gonna find anyone like me at my age, and I treat you the right way and the way you need to be treated.
Profession: Law Enforcement