to date anymore... ZERO zilch...nada.

Between the cheesy pick up lines here and IRL, and the liars, and the guys who call too much, or the ones who don't call enough, and the ones who say "I'm so interested in you" and yet will flirt with anything with a vagina, the dumb ones, the ones who think they are smart, the ones who want to make you feel dumb because for whatever reason it makes them feel smarter, the ones who come on too strong, the ones who don't come on at all....

I just don't care anymore....

The only one I want is 400 miles away and there is no chance for that one... besides him, there is nothing I find appealing about the oposite sex besides....well, sex.

I'm venting..... I'm allowed right?

I agree, I actually have some local interest now & I could still care less. I think I got too comfortable being single!!

I feel you. The only one I really seem to like lives to far an he dont like me that way. oh well life goes on. but yeah of course you can vent, I do it alot lol. cheers to hoping to find the perfect guy for you.

yah especially when others feel like you do.


i completely feel like you do.

I feel the same way...you are not alone...sux huh...

i agree with u on this hun. its like there isnt a guy out there who can just wanna be witha girl and just her and not be too clingy about it

I think maybe that's what it is, I'm so comfortable that I kinda feel like dating would be an intrusion in my life... I have a ton of friends, so it's not like I'm lonely...Regular sex that's the only thing I miss about a relationship....

i hope you're not including me in this vent lily

amen lily I totaly agree. I am piss my self because someone had just lied to me and was playing a game. that is the worse for me is a liar.

It just burns my ass.

You can't really stereotype all men into catagorys like that, it's not all men that are like that. Its not "our" fault that the bad ones give us all a bad reputation, but at the same time us as men can say the same thing about women, and get the same responce from you about you can't all group us together.
its a lose lose situation till you find the right one.
And you can't do that if you give up.

a(men)

Do you still have that bottle of tequilla?

There is a Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawd......

Please re-read my post, as I did not in anyway shape or form say that all men were like that, what I said was that the ones who are make me not give two sh*ts about any of them that may not... What I said was that weeding through the garden of my life seems pointless to find the one or two that aren't jackasses that I am actually attracted to that don't treat others like crap... If you go by statistics... the variables outweigh the reward...

I hate this mood, I'm going out....

But ...but ....but ?????

No I'm going out for it, I don't keep that in my house I have a little one... and you can't be too careful...

Guess what...I have no "desire" either!

Well, unless you are shaking a fresh canister of "salted/roasted cashews"...

and/or...have the power of a 400 amp stand-up fan for my post-MENi hot flashes...

and/or/AND...can swoon me like Keith Urban, Carlos Santana, Rob Thomas, David Wilcox (to name a few)...

Until then...SCRAM!

So we're not going out tonight?

I'm new to mingle2, but I can definitely relate to what Lily is saying..Not to say that all guys are like that, but I can say from 3 failed relationships, in which I was the only one putting anything into them, only to have them fail, it gets very frustrating. You tend to lose all trust in the opposite sex, and then the stereotyping begins. I can say this is the same for guys who stereotype all women.
After someone has tried several times to make something work, only to have it fall apart, it gives you no faith that there is actually a nice guy out there...and for the guys a nice girl.

Lily, I think you're mistaken.

I'm currently MORE than 400 miles away from you. But when I DO get back to Wisconsin this Sunday, I WILL be only about 400 miles away from you! (=