Topic: Our decaying morals and
Fade2Black's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:03 AM

Very similar to some of the most uncharitable people who occupy the front rows of the pughs of the churches every Sunday.
THEY ALL TALK ABOUT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. None know the meaning of it and when it come to exercise it they ALL stall.



lmao .. wow, talk about stereotyping. Dang dude.noway


You know a definition of stereotyping is ignorance.

Just sayin glasses

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:05 AM


I can't use words to describe it. I just know it when I see it.


It's name is Lily if that is the word you were looking for... Just helping ya out shugs...


TY laugh

Lily0923's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:05 AM

He's going the distance...he's going for speed....


I'd prefer he just lay there and let me handle it without getting all fancy about it...

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:11 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:17 AM

I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:18 AM

"I truly believe it can conquer death and go on forever." interesting. Do you think love is in the soul of a puerson?


1 of the levels of love is in our soul.
There are just so many different levels, the last being lust. I think many problems happen when 2 people find they are at different levels & there is no compromise attainable.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 09/02/08 07:40 AM


I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou


Overrated.

tngxl65's photo
Tue 09/02/08 07:51 AM
First, love is not unconditional. But true love is devotion to a person, not focusing on their shortcomings, and continually trying to build them up. True love means not giving up during the hard times just because they're hard. True love means constantly recommitting yourself to your partner. True love isn't the constant pitter patter of the heart, it's a synchronization of purpose and a unity of the soul.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 09/02/08 07:52 AM

values have corrupted the idea of love and turned it into a common word we use out of lust, or worse than that, spite. It is used more as a tool of hurt than it is to heal, inspire or nourish the soul. So I'm curious what is your definition of love.
bigsmile Its whatever the lavender prairie dogs tell me it isdrinker

Etrain's photo
Tue 09/02/08 07:56 AM
love Love is a wedgie...on a cold winters nightlove

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 09/02/08 07:58 AM



I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou


Overrated.


What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions?

tngxl65's photo
Tue 09/02/08 07:58 AM

love Love is a wedgie...on a cold winters nightlove


I change my answer to that.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:04 AM




I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou


Overrated.


What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions?


Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone.

Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:08 AM





I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou


Overrated.


What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions?


Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone.

Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more.


well I'm sure he did things to show his infidelity... and she just ignored it.

I can tell the character of a person in a few interactions with them... I have been wrong, but not often... I read people, it's not hard everyone can do it if they try, some however are so afraid their delicate little world will crumble at their feet that they prefer to believe the lies... JMO anyways.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:10 AM





I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou


Overrated.


What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions?


Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone.

Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more.


In this case it was his words to her that were the lie. His actions were the truth. I never want to be in a relationship where I have to wonder if I am being lied to. That's why I trust from day one. I may get hurt in the long run, but if I can't trust someone than there's no point in my being there.

Some say people have to earn their trust before they get it. I trust first. Maybe I'm an idiot.

lilangel2's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:12 AM

I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


drinker

Etrain's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:14 AM
love Love is...an enema, on a warm spring day...leaving you fresh and cleanlove

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:14 AM

Mine is this: I recently fell in love, and what I mean by love is the kind that lifts your heart and makes it flutter in your chest every time you think of them. It makes you wonder how you ever lived without them before they came into your life and that you would not survive if they left.

Everyday just hearing her voice makes my world complete. She is the first thing I think of in the morning and the last before I sleep.

Love is caring about her well being and never want to hurt her or anyone else she loves. It's also knowing that you want to wake up every morning the rest of my life with her by my side giving me that special stare that tells me she is mine forever.

That's what love, true and unconditional love means to me.
....that's beautiful. Sniff, sniff. Somebody hold me.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:25 AM






I think love can be defined by actions not wordslove love love love love


I very much agree with this. flowerforyou


Overrated.


What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions?


Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone.

Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more.


well I'm sure he did things to show his infidelity... and she just ignored it.

I can tell the character of a person in a few interactions with them... I have been wrong, but not often... I read people, it's not hard everyone can do it if they try, some however are so afraid their delicate little world will crumble at their feet that they prefer to believe the lies... JMO anyways.


I agree. Hell, I knew he was cheating even before he told me. It was easy to see. But, I guess we just don't want to see the truth when it hurts.

Ruth, his actions were lies too, but they did tell how he truly felt. His reasoning to his infidelity was that he just didn't want one woman anymore. I suggested divorce, and he flipped. It happened anyways.laugh laugh

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/02/08 08:31 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Tue 09/02/08 08:41 AM
Love is knowing that person enriches you and makes you strive to be better. It is putting someone before yourself without losing yourself or changing the essence of who you are, it is sharing and taking and giving in a mutual sense. It is romance and respect and passion and endurance, understanding and compassion....

Love is about expressing yourself in actions and deeds, all based on the feelings you have in your heart.
Love is most based on respect, feeling wanted and wanting.
Love is not based on need.
It is a fulfillment that should come without expectations...