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Topic: I have to respect people and be nice.
Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:40 PM
I have been told I now have to be a nice perosn and not speak my mind on this site.

If people dont speak the truth some what here, how do people plan to meet on lies,. I have heard some success stories but also see alot of bull crap.

so I geuss sugering coating everthing is what your suppose to do here. I have been banned already.

sorry I speak the truth good or bad, and expect the same in return.

So I will try to be on my best behavior, which is only a part of me.

Italy0219's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:43 PM
Yeah, you're suppose to save your ugly side for when you actually meet the girl and take her out on her date...then you're suppose to speak your mind....rofl

Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:47 PM

Yeah, you're suppose to save your ugly side for when you actually meet the girl and take her out on her date...then you're suppose to speak your mind....rofl


I hate to get slap on the first date unless it is in the right place.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:47 PM
SUGAR COAT EVERYTHING!!!

The Sugar industry is counting on you!!!!

Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:48 PM
Bad thing is i really dont like sugar.

markc48's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:49 PM
Just think what kind of a fight you will have when you meet your equal:heart:

papersmile's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:51 PM

I have been told I now have to be a nice perosn and not speak my mind on this site.

If people dont speak the truth some what here, how do people plan to meet on lies,. I have heard some success stories but also see alot of bull crap.

so I geuss sugering coating everthing is what your suppose to do here. I have been banned already.

sorry I speak the truth good or bad, and expect the same in return.

So I will try to be on my best behavior, which is only a part of me.


surely though, it's possible to speak the truth while maintaining tact and diplomacy?

how could anyone argue with that?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:52 PM
happy Could I interest you in a pet rock?happy


Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:52 PM

Just think what kind of a fight you will have when you meet your equal:heart:


Boy that would a good one to sell tickets to.laugh laugh

lilangel2's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:53 PM
being nice is nice:angel:

oh im officially single nowwaving

Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:53 PM

happy Could I interest you in a pet rock?happy



It does talk back does it.

Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:57 PM

being nice is nice:angel:

oh im officially single nowwaving

Do I have to sugarey nice or just nice:angel: and baddevil

redhead44613's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:57 PM

being nice is nice:angel:

oh im officially single nowwaving
noway what?????

markc48's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:59 PM


Just think what kind of a fight you will have when you meet your equal:heart:
I had the perfect one for you view my profile. Maybe she will find you.

Boy that would a good one to sell tickets to.laugh laugh

mscherbear's photo
Sat 08/30/08 07:59 PM
I must have missed an awful lot, Troy. I've never seen you speak unkindly noway

Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 08:03 PM

I must have missed an awful lot, Troy. I've never seen you speak unkindly noway

In two treads I spoke what i felt and believe but other had a different outlook.shocked frown

Ted14621's photo
Sat 08/30/08 08:05 PM
Sure, we can tell the truth, speak our minds, but tact is also part of a civilization.

Mrtap's photo
Sat 08/30/08 08:06 PM

Sure, we can tell the truth, speak our minds, but tact is also part of a civilization.

Tact according to who?

no photo
Sat 08/30/08 08:08 PM
Edited by SilverJoy on Sat 08/30/08 08:10 PM
I'm all for speaking one's mind, being blunt, telling it like it is...and so forth...

...as long as it is harmonized with:

a. A touch of tact
b. A pinch of passion
c. A dollop of diplomacy
d. A heaping cup of compassion
e. An eyedropper full of empathy
f. An inkling of well-worn true experience/KNOWLEDGE to the topic
g. And a slew of sincerity

Otherwise, one just comes across as yet another armchair azzhole on the internet...IMHO. :wink:

JessicaElaine's photo
Sat 08/30/08 08:08 PM
i think there is a line, but u shouldnt have to hold back. honestly if people dont want the honest truth they shouldnt ask the friggen question.

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