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What do you do when you have been dating someone less than a week (one who is awesome btw) that says I want to buy you a ring???
I think it is too soon but should the opportunity be blown away??? |
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don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah...don't do it
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Are you comfortable with the idea?
By your question, it would seem that you aren't. My suggestion would be to ( tactfully ) let him know that you would rather wait a bit. Unless of course, you know him well. |
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I mean as long as it's not an engagement ring haha.
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don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah...don't do it
HES RIGHT ETRAINS RIGHT SEND OUT A MEMO!!! DONT DO IT GIRL... PLEASE!!! |
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Only foolish decisions are made in haste.
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I mean as long as it's not an engagement ring haha. LMAO he said it would be a friendship ring. 
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I'd say "sure, I like rings. what kind do you want to buy for me?"
You didn't say he wants to marry you. Just that he wants to buy you a ring. Is it his intention to make a visual "claim" on you or does he just like to buy jewelry for women? |
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Are you comfortable with the idea? By your question, it would seem that you aren't. My suggestion would be to ( tactfully ) let him know that you would rather wait a bit. Unless of course, you know him well. No, I'm not comfortable with it actually. And no I don't know him well yet....less than a week isn't very long but he seems to know exactly what to say. I think waiting a bit is a good idea. Thank you!!! 
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I would tell them that it's just too soon for a gift or gesture that big and though you appreciate the offer, you simply can't take it.
If they don't get the hint from that, you may have to ask them to slow down for you. Just communicate with them where YOU are in this thing...if they care, they will understand.
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Umm.. it's only been a week? A little too soon, I'd say. But that's up to you!
After a week, I'd be happy with dinner/movie. 
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I'd say "sure, I like rings. what kind do you want to buy for me?" You didn't say he wants to marry you. Just that he wants to buy you a ring. Is it his intention to make a visual "claim" on you or does he just like to buy jewelry for women? I dunno yet but would you just take a ring??? |
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don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah...don't do it
I'm feeling what you're saying E....lol. |
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I would tell them that it's just too soon for a gift or gesture that big and though you appreciate the offer, you simply can't take it. If they don't get the hint from that, you may have to ask them to slow down for you. Just communicate with them where YOU are in this thing...if they care, they will understand.
You're right, if he cares he will understand. 
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Maybe it's a TEST!! To see if you only want the materialistic things one can buy for you!
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Oh geez.. unless it comes out of a box of cracker jacks..say no.
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What do you do when you have been dating someone less than a week (one who is awesome btw) that says I want to buy you a ring??? I think it is too soon but should the opportunity be blown away??? les then a week? To me, that would make me feel a little uncomfortable. Whats the ring for? i mean, where is he planing on going with this? |
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Umm.. it's only been a week? A little too soon, I'd say. But that's up to you! After a week, I'd be happy with dinner/movie.
Jules, I think it's too soon too. I'm listening and I know that I can't let what he says blind me.
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my ex hubby propsed to me a week after we got together. and i made him wait we were together for 2yrs before we got married. and of course it didnt even last a 1yr
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Really, I wouldn't take a ring. I don't wear the rings I have because of bruising.
If we were at a craft fair or something like that and he wanted to buy something for me, in friendship, I'd choose something else. Sounds to me like he wants to get "control" of you. You should talk about that with him more. It would make me nervous for someone to move that fast. He probably wants to get close just as fast! Good luck!!
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