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Topic: Girls, After how many dates would let you let a guy do this?
sax19 Joined Sat 10/06/07 Posts: 36	Wed 08/13/08 09:41 AM
If you are dating a cute guy and like him, which date would you let him play footsies with you? And I mean when both of you are in bare feet, absolutely no shoes or socks what so ever! I'd like to get a girlfriend and I connect with but also I'd really like it if she wouldn't mind playing footsie once in a while. So would most girls like to do it?

sara89 Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 1143	Wed 08/13/08 09:43 AM
i think it would just depend on the connection level

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 08/13/08 09:44 AM
Footsies? I've never played footsies. I don't care for it myself and personally I think it's just plain weird. But to each his/her own I guess.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/13/08 09:45 AM
Depends on the connection level like sara said previously.. I been known to play at different levels with different guys.. It is simply a flirty game in my eyes.. my opinion though...

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Wed 08/13/08 09:45 AM
I see that the foot freak is back.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Wed 08/13/08 09:47 AM
Footsies? I've never played footsies. I don't care for it myself and personally I think it's just plain weird. But to each his/her own I guess. actually not really, my x and myself would come home kick off shoes sit at each end of the couch, and massage each others feet and chat about how our day was. i though that was awsome.!!!jmo

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Wed 08/13/08 09:47 AM
one

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 08/13/08 09:48 AM
Why wait???? Can we do the bicycle with our footies???

alisha07 Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 4265	Wed 08/13/08 10:01 AM
weird dont ever touch my feet or u will die. i hate feet

sax19 Joined Sat 10/06/07 Posts: 36	Wed 08/13/08 10:03 AM
Well, I could never have a relationship with a girl who had a phobia of playing footsie. It just wouldn't work.

Kara1 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4	Wed 08/13/08 10:11 AM
Whenever i feel comfortable. It's about how much i like the guy and how into him i am and if i like playing footseys lol. It could be date number 2 or 10.. I dont know.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 08/13/08 10:32 AM
I think you would have to ask permission. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148780 Loads of people don't like having their feet touched. Just as many adore it.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 08/13/08 10:46 AM
Footsie? I like giving foot massages That's all i know

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 08/13/08 10:49 AM
weird dont ever touch my feet or u will die. i hate feet Dang! good to know Now i know who i won't be asking out I'd like to live a lil longer

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Wed 08/13/08 11:42 AM
I was on vacation with my ski club in Jr. High school. Someone kept playing with my feet under the table as we dined. It irked me so much I yelled out, "whoever is hitting my feet, stop!" It was the prettiest girl in the entire school. Oh well, time for a song. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sEbgB6X6S5c

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 08/13/08 12:09 PM
Footsies? I've never played footsies. I don't care for it myself and personally I think it's just plain weird. But to each his/her own I guess. actually not really, my x and myself would come home kick off shoes sit at each end of the couch, and massage each others feet and chat about how our day was. i though that was awsome.!!!jmo Okay I'm confused then. Because I thought "footsies" was when you touched each others feet using only your feet. And a foot massage is when you use your hands to massage the other person's feet. Do I have this right? The foot massage I'm all for.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 08/13/08 12:10 PM
People, click on the link I posted!!!! Please.....

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 08/13/08 12:10 PM
Well, I could never have a relationship with a girl who had a phobia of playing footsie. It just wouldn't work. I don't have a phobia about it, I just think it's goofy and stupid. But that's just my opinion. If you like that sort of thing, then have at it!

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Wed 08/13/08 12:12 PM
I'm with mscarmen on this one - I don't like feet! Footsies? I've never played footsies. I don't care for it myself and personally I think it's just plain weird. But to each his/her own I guess.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 08/13/08 12:15 PM
To me footsies is highly sexual and it is only appropriate as a prelude to intimacy. So it would depend on where we were in the relationship for sure.