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someone loves you but dont want nothing to do with her but still be freinds and not to hurt her at the same time
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Choose between the two; it's one or the other, I think.
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Are you asking, "What would you do if someone still loves you but you don't want to have anything to do with them, but you will still be friends with them so you don't hurt them?
If that is what you are asking, I think that might be the wrong move to make. I would just be honest and upfront about your feelings. Otherwise you could end up leading her on and getting yourself into a very big mess. |
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If she loves you, I don't think she can be just friends with you - it might be better for her in the long run if you just cut ties with her.
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Be honest...hopefully you won't hurt the other person, but you have to make sure they understand that you aren't interested! Hey, they could be missing the love of their life in someone else, if they think they have a chance with you... Do 'em a favor - nicely if you can...but do it.
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Edited by
iRon
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Sun 08/10/08 02:26 PM
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I have a situation at work. I don't if she loves me but she wants be. Does that count?
A coworker in another dept, different building is pregnant and and the father took off...... I here and see her falling for me.....We met at a company function and we seldom have to see each other but lately she is showing up more and more. From what I hear she wants me. She's absolutely beautiful and a great person form what I can tell......and in the state she is in I don't want to hurt her in any way. I am just being careful to stay away and ensuring I am not leading her on.... I must admit I am intrigued as I love children and my exwife got my testicles while we were married(long story) But NO thanks.....I will just stay way.... |
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i think you are right !!! thanks a lot
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Are you asking, "What would you do if someone still loves you but you don't want to have anything to do with them, but you will still be friends with them so you don't hurt them? If that is what you are asking, I think that might be the wrong move to make. I would just be honest and upfront about your feelings. Otherwise you could end up leading her on and getting yourself into a very big mess. Agreed... the best thing is to be honest and tell her.. I care for you, but not in a romantic way. I value you as a good friend. I would like to stay friends.. and I am being clear so there are no misunderstandings.. cause I would be very upset if I hurt you, even if it was unintentionable. If SHE feels she cannot just be friends.. then do the right thing.. wish her a great life and let her know you will keep her in your prayers. Good Luck! 
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thanks guys that was helpful!!!!!
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Honesty is the best policy
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