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| Topic: How to make a man recover his selfsteem? | |
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... You have to believe in you and your ethics and know that if you're a good person then the other issues are usually someone else's... Don't get me wrong, we're all a pain in the azz some days we're human but in general most aren't 'bad'... |
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... You have to believe in you and your ethics and know that if you're a good person then the other issues are usually someone else's... Don't get me wrong, we're all a pain in the azz some days we're human but in general most aren't 'bad'... |
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If I may interject. When at the end of the day, the only person you have to measure up to is the one in the mirror. I came from a place where my self esteem was lower than whale $%^&, and with the help of a lot of true friends who believed in me when I didn't believe in myself, and told me what I needed to hear, not what I wanted to hear, today life is great. At least I can roll with the flow of the river today, even when life isn't so great. OH YEAH! That's what I am doing right now. Great point! |
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And how are men? Well that's a changing archetype too, but it is less out of place for a guy to come off all tough and macho. |
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... You have to believe in you and your ethics and know that if you're a good person then the other issues are usually someone else's... Don't get me wrong, we're all a pain in the azz some days we're human but in general most aren't 'bad'... YEP! I am! Thanks fo rthe input ladies...I really appreciate it! |
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... You have to believe in you and your ethics and know that if you're a good person then the other issues are usually someone else's... Don't get me wrong, we're all a pain in the azz some days we're human but in general most aren't 'bad'... I don't disagree with your point of believing in ourselves ONLY THAT we cannot make OTHER believe in themselves.... |
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it doesn't happen overnight either, at least it didn't for me
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it doesn't happen overnight either, at least it didn't for me No, it doesn't. It's been almost a year for me, and I'm still dealing with stuff.... |
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... You have to believe in you and your ethics and know that if you're a good person then the other issues are usually someone else's... Don't get me wrong, we're all a pain in the azz some days we're human but in general most aren't 'bad'... I don't disagree with your point of believing in ourselves ONLY THAT we cannot make OTHER believe in themselves.... I agree, unless someone wants to believe, they can't |
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Edited by
YamilethJ
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Wed 08/06/08 10:27 PM
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of course .....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW.
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of course not.....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW. Yes...indeed it does.... |
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of course not.....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW. Yes...indeed it does.... |
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of course not.....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW. Yes...indeed it does.... see I disagree again... I was taught that you can't be loved unless you love yourself.. I truly believe that.. If you don't believe in YOU or LOVE YOU then how can anyone else see the value in you??? What we put out is what others perceive... |
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of course not.....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW. Yes...indeed it does.... see I disagree again... I was taught that you can't be loved unless you love yourself.. I truly believe that.. If you don't believe in YOU or LOVE YOU then how can anyone else see the value in you??? What we put out is what others perceive... |
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Edited by
YamilethJ
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Wed 08/06/08 10:33 PM
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE HELP TO LIFT LOW SELFSTEEM?
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO |
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO |
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If a person falls in "love" with someone who doesn't love themselves, it's more likely they feel sorry for them. The end result is usually nothing but problems one way or the other.
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself... |
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It depends on what kind of love you are looking for. romantic love will not cure low self esteem, it might temporarily. But the unconditional love that true friends and family would go a long way in helping.
The real cure is an inside job |
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