I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up... hey indn, you were right on track, but it is her loss Pete, some can't stand by their beliefs.. If you run that easily and quickly then you don't even believe in what you're saying... |
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We know how to make a woman recover her selfsteem, but men we do not know ...as a woman I am curious self esteem comes from one's self no one can give you self esteem it comes from within never want to depend on anyone to validate MY self worth |
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i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED. We? |
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i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED. |
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself... |
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Topic:
How long do you wait?
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iT IS NOT SOMETHING I WILL SET....MAYBE YOU MEET THE RIGHT PERSON THE SAME DAY, MAYBE SITUATIONS ARE CARRYING YOU STRAIGHT TO THAT PERSON, LIFE CAN BE UNPREDICTABLE.
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO |
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Wed 08/06/08 10:33 PM
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE HELP TO LIFT LOW SELFSTEEM?
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of course not.....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW. Yes...indeed it does.... see I disagree again... I was taught that you can't be loved unless you love yourself.. I truly believe that.. If you don't believe in YOU or LOVE YOU then how can anyone else see the value in you??? What we put out is what others perceive... |
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of course not.....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW. Yes...indeed it does.... |
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Wed 08/06/08 10:27 PM
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of course .....it is something like ...me myself and I..ANOTHER THING I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HELP TO LIFT THE SELFSTEEM TOO IS ....LOVE....LOVE DO WONDERS TOO YOU KNOW.
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I would go ....this person can be in danger and you will feel guilty if you never believe her, or just go you need to find out why ..she calls you ...why you, and if you are asking it is because there is still feelings that you need to get rid off and they only way would be talking or asking her.
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... You have to believe in you and your ethics and know that if you're a good person then the other issues are usually someone else's... Don't get me wrong, we're all a pain in the azz some days we're human but in general most aren't 'bad'... |
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Do not let anyone have your selfsteem in their hands, they can just destroy you, create you or just be dependent.
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The point being...you should not deliberately hurt the ones you love....but yeah, she did that quite a bit... That is just right. |
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Wed 08/06/08 10:14 PM
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though.... |
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YamilethJ
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Wed 08/06/08 10:10 PM
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no thank me....It is just real, the truth, and a fact.
so keep sexy,,,, When someone does not see us the way we expect it does not mean that the rest of the world thinks the same. this goes for you spaceman, Great name by the way men of the space, or more like men out of the space. |
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." |
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." |
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Wait we know how to make a woman recover her self-esteem? that's news to me.. How???? That is not correct.. I'm sorry but having studied psychology and people and worked on helping people I know that is NOT the answer... |
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