Community > 50 and over

Topic: Are you truly happy alone??
musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Mon 08/25/08 06:06 PM
practice your deep breathing exercises, i know it may be a while since you did that but i'm sure you can remember how.

flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Mon 08/25/08 06:09 PM
It's been a longgggg while

SkyHook5652 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 4063	Mon 08/25/08 10:40 PM
As much as I think I should be able to be happy alone, I have to say that I'm not. But hope springs eternal!

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 08/26/08 12:53 PM
Not happy alone, just don't think I would be fair to marry another lady, with how I still feel.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 08/26/08 12:53 PM
How long flame, 11yrs. last may, for me.

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Tue 08/26/08 01:33 PM
there's a lot of space between being alone and marriage. at our age companionship goes a long way.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 08/26/08 01:38 PM
there's a lot of space between being alone and marriage. at our age companionship goes a long way. Couldn't have said it better. Way to go, SWEETIE.

freeonthree Joined Tue 06/19/07 Posts: 2407	Tue 08/26/08 01:51 PM
Yep, im quite happy being unattached. I like the freedom alot. I don't just sit in a chair and stare at tv though... That would really suck.

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Tue 08/26/08 02:03 PM
anytime dear

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 08/26/08 02:05 PM


flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Tue 08/26/08 02:06 PM
11yrs this Oct.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 08/26/08 03:30 PM
there's a lot of space between being alone and marriage. at our age companionship goes a long way. Couldn't have said it better. Way to go, SWEETIE. companionship is what were looking for. My late husband lived with 6 year then married 12 those 6 were the best. I miss the companionship the most. When you just click.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 08/26/08 03:36 PM
LOVE.....companionship.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 08/26/08 03:39 PM
LOVE.....companionship. You so funny smiles

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Tue 08/26/08 05:21 PM
Sometimes at peace with yourself and worry free. Other times is seems so sad and lonesome...the urge to reach out and have someone to touch and hold creeps up in waves and then thankfully ebbs away...

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Tue 08/26/08 05:24 PM
oh we can't forget that

sweetvenus Joined Fri 11/21/08 Posts: 5	Sat 11/22/08 06:59 PM
Alone: stresses the feeling of lack of close companionship, a suggestion of longing for companionship. Intimate: marked by close acquaintance, association or familiarity. Relating to or indicative of one's deepest nature. Do you not crave a body lying next to you and you feel them breathing on the back of your head and you know what they are thinking? I hate being alone but that is the way it is, for now.

jmsissy Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 161	Sat 11/22/08 07:58 PM
I miss the bug bear hugs and snuggling...sigh

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Sat 11/22/08 08:20 PM
Hi Flame, Koolaid I was lucky to have been married 20 years...even tho' alot of hairy times in the last 5 years. We shopped, planned meals together, and cooked together. It is just not the same now for one I miss the phone calls checking up on me.... Make this aloneness go away Blessings all around I was married 26 yrs the last time and I do miss very much not having someone there...

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Sat 11/22/08 08:22 PM
Yep, im quite happy being unattached. I like the freedom alot. I don't just sit in a chair and stare at tv though... That would really suck. Oh I do love having my freedom.. I put 6,000 miles on my car this summer and went to a singles party in NC and didn't even know anyone there...had a good time too!