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Unfortunately we will always have some people in this world who are racist. That goes for white, black, mexican, etc... I wish everyone could get along and set this aside. I have seen racists of every color. It's sad. I would love to start a movement to unite everyone so they can settle their differences. But some will always choose to be narrow minded. I have actually helped people understand that we are all human and it shouldn't matter what color your skin is. If we could all just look beyond color and see what's under the surface this world would be just that much better! PEACE... 
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i dont think everyone knows what the term racism actually means though
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OOOH I know try this!!!! thank you but NO!!! why does it have to be about race???? it really isnt unless you make it so!!! IMHO sounds rascist to me.... I agree here, its not about race, its about attraction, just not attracted, end of discussion. I dont date black guys either, what does that make me?? 
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I guess if someone I wasn't interested in asked me out, I'd just diplomatically say "no", and that goes for any race  .
same here. its just when i say im not interested in a black guy they interigate me, and keep saying is it because im black, and that makes me feel awkward, its not fair. If thats the case, then they are just ignorant, and u r not a racist. Just keep it moving, no one deserves an explanation for "no", No means NO. LOL |
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OOOH I know try this!!!! thank you but NO!!! why does it have to be about race???? it really isnt unless you make it so!!! IMHO sounds rascist to me.... I agree here, its not about race, its about attraction, just not attracted, end of discussion. I dont date black guys either, what does that make me??
it just makes you attracted to who your attracted to, which is normal
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i dont think everyone knows what the term racism actually means though Very true! It isn't just about skin color. There are so many different factors. It sort of ties into discrimination as well. But just because someone isn't attracted to a certain race in a romantic sense doesn't make them racist. Because I'm sure you have friends of this race. People misinterpret your post sometimes because they fail to ask questions. They simply just make their own conclusion. |
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I guess if someone I wasn't interested in asked me out, I'd just diplomatically say "no", and that goes for any race .
same here. its just when i say im not interested in a black guy they interigate me, and keep saying is it because im black, and that makes me feel awkward, its not fair. If thats the case, then they are just ignorant, and u r not a racist. Just keep it moving, no one deserves an explanation for "no", No means NO. LOL the one today went on about for over 10 mins and he was upsetting me, no means no from now on, thankyou.
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I guess if someone I wasn't interested in asked me out, I'd just diplomatically say "no", and that goes for any race .
same here. its just when i say im not interested in a black guy they interigate me, and keep saying is it because im black, and that makes me feel awkward, its not fair. If thats the case, then they are just ignorant, and u r not a racist. Just keep it moving, no one deserves an explanation for "no", No means NO. LOL You tell her girl!  It's the truth.
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i dont think everyone knows what the term racism actually means though Very true! It isn't just about skin color. There are so many different factors. It sort of ties into discrimination as well. But just because someone isn't attracted to a certain race in a romantic sense doesn't make them racist. Because I'm sure you have friends of this race. People misinterpret your post sometimes because they fail to ask questions. They simply just make their own conclusion. yes your totally right, one of my male friends i talk to everynight on here is black and i get on really well with him, just because im not attracted to him it doesnt make me racist, and thats where your correct in saying people make there own conclusions. plus my neice is mixed race and shes my whole life.
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Edited by
YamilethJ
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Sat 07/19/08 03:50 PM
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All i can say is that I met Debbie through e-mails and I am spanish and she was very friendly with me, so I can garantee that she is not racist also she has wonderful way to threat people with so much respect .....
what you need to do now Debbie.....it's find the white man of your dreams and ask him if he has a brother ...for me 
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All i can say is that I met Debbie through e-mails and I am spanish and she was very friendly with me, so I can garantee that she is not racist also she has wonderful way to threat people..... what you need to do now Debbie.....is fine the white man of your dreams and ask him if he has a brother ...for me
do you mean treat people sweetie??lol
and thankyou very much, your a lovely lady, and when im find him, ill pass his brother your way
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way to go Debbie!!!
sorry thanks i meant treat |
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Sat 07/19/08 03:53 PM
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way to go Debbie!!! sorry thanks i meant treat i know sweetie, youve gave me a giggle and i needed one  , thankyou. your a sweetheart
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how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT 
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how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT
TRY READING THE WHOLE THREAD I SAY IM NOT INTERESTED AND THEY QUESTION AFTER AND INTERIGATE ME AND KEEP ASKING ME IF ITS BECAUSE OF THERE RACE, AND THATS NOT FAIR. SO IM DOING EXACTLY AS YOU SAID IF YOU HAD READ THE WHOLE THREAD |
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Edited by
YamilethJ
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Sat 07/19/08 04:01 PM
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how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT
but the guy got offended remember that she is not only talking about black man she is talking about other races ...have you read her words she is so worry about not hurting nobody feelings |
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how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT
plus i stated once every black man wants a white women, i never said that once ANYWHERE |
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Sat 07/19/08 04:03 PM
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how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT
but the guy got offended remember that she is not only talking about black man she is talking about other races ...have you read her words she is so worry about not hurting nobody feelings thankyou thats why i srated this thread because i was scared of hurting someones feelings. i wish people would read the whole thread before jumping to conclusions
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my God this forum it is about express yourself not about judging and for that black guy who posted, chill out nobody is saying anything wrong you should read the other comments, what are you talking about ....you should not have does attitudes I am spanish and when people rejected me for whatever reason ..I never assume it is because of my race..never I always assume I am not their type, so that why there's different colours for different taste
People like orange, blue or green nobody can force no one to like a color I like what a like and done> |
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my God this forum it is about express yourself not about judging and for that black guy who posted, chill out nobody is saying anything wrong you should read the other comments, what are you talking about ....you should not have does attitudes I am spanish and when people rejected me for whatever reason ..I never assume it is because of my race..never I always assume I am not their type, so that why there's different colours for different taste People like orange, blue or green nobody can force no one to like a color I like what a like and done> bravo
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