Topic: Negativity....
redhead44613's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:19 PM
what do you do to get rid of all the negativity that people throw at you? frustrated

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:20 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Tue 07/15/08 05:20 PM

what do you do to get rid of all the negativity that people throw at you? frustrated


I laugh about it...but then again I'm odd.smokin

no photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:20 PM
a bat?

TheMissile's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:20 PM


what do you do to get rid of all the negativity that people throw at you? frustrated


I laugh about it...but then again I'm odd.smokin

Same smokin

rainysky39's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:20 PM
Smile like you know something about them that they have done and giggle to yourself..It throws them offguard and they leave you alone..LOL

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:22 PM
I don't let it get to me.. I know who and what I am and feel secure with that... However, we all have times when someone hurts our feelings, then I reflect see if I caused it and move on from there either improving that thing or shaking my head about the negative person...

Believe in yourself that is all Red...

kayak69's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:22 PM
I'm not sure, I don't do negative.

elwoodsully's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:24 PM
I throw the person over my shoulder, and threaten them with torture. It has never not worked.

redhead44613's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:27 PM

I don't let it get to me.. I know who and what I am and feel secure with that... However, we all have times when someone hurts our feelings, then I reflect see if I caused it and move on from there either improving that thing or shaking my head about the negative person...

Believe in yourself that is all Red...
I do believe in myself but this new job I got is an amazing job an Im excided about it but everyone I know thinks its a scam an im wasting my time, I know its not a scam. But their negativity is rubbing off on me an Im tring my hardest not to let them get to me but its getting hard. Why cant people just be happy for me for once in my life... gosh

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:29 PM
Just don't talk to them about it... do your thing and when you prove them wrong they'll feel foolish and that will be enough... If you let their negativity interfere you wil have a jaded view before you even get there... But I think you also need to ask yourself are they trying to protect you from something and just consciously think if they could be right... If they're not then go in smiling a huge smile and enjoy it...

rainysky39's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:29 PM
Do your best, be happy and dont let them bother you. Easier said than done at times, but in the long run, you will be the one laughing at them when the time comes.

redhead44613's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:36 PM

Just don't talk to them about it... do your thing and when you prove them wrong they'll feel foolish and that will be enough... If you let their negativity interfere you wil have a jaded view before you even get there... But I think you also need to ask yourself are they trying to protect you from something and just consciously think if they could be right... If they're not then go in smiling a huge smile and enjoy it...
flowerforyou Thank you... you have helped me see that they are wrong, I know in my heart that this new job is a great thing for me! If all else fails I will come out of this with something learnedbigsmile

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:37 PM
You're very welcome.. Good luck and update us.. You're right, as long as we learn what more can we ask, we still take something away from the experience...

No1sLove's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:39 PM
I try not to take it to begin with...then I don't have to get rid of it. flowerforyou

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:40 PM


I don't let it get to me.. I know who and what I am and feel secure with that... However, we all have times when someone hurts our feelings, then I reflect see if I caused it and move on from there either improving that thing or shaking my head about the negative person...

Believe in yourself that is all Red...
I do believe in myself but this new job I got is an amazing job an Im excided about it but everyone I know thinks its a scam an im wasting my time, I know its not a scam. But their negativity is rubbing off on me an Im tring my hardest not to let them get to me but its getting hard. Why cant people just be happy for me for once in my life... gosh


If they have had experiences related to the job you are getting ready to do, then they might have some validity to their opinions. I'm not saying they are right, but maybe they are just looking out for your best interests? Have you investigated the company to make sure that it's not a scam?

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Tue 07/15/08 05:42 PM
I had to flip my daughter off behind her back earlier to get rid of some!!! laugh laugh laugh She's just been SUCH A TURD TODAY!!! Tweenagers!!!! frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

prettylady4's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:42 PM
those people have to much time on there hands:wink:

redhead44613's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:47 PM



I don't let it get to me.. I know who and what I am and feel secure with that... However, we all have times when someone hurts our feelings, then I reflect see if I caused it and move on from there either improving that thing or shaking my head about the negative person...

Believe in yourself that is all Red...
I do believe in myself but this new job I got is an amazing job an Im excided about it but everyone I know thinks its a scam an im wasting my time, I know its not a scam. But their negativity is rubbing off on me an Im tring my hardest not to let them get to me but its getting hard. Why cant people just be happy for me for once in my life... gosh


If they have had experiences related to the job you are getting ready to do, then they might have some validity to their opinions. I'm not saying they are right, but maybe they are just looking out for your best interests? Have you investigated the company to make sure that it's not a scam?
yes I have they have been around for 80 years an are in 41 countrys... not a scam lol. no one I know has even been in this comp. or even heard of them. they dont out their product on store shelfs