who has a hairy chest...( I saw someone like that years ago) is your girlfriend and you do not want to hurt her feelings.

That is disgusting.....

I really think that she prolly already knows that it's odd that she has a hairy chest and if it bothers you than to just tell her.

I know a lot of people don't run their relationships this way, but honesty is always the best policy.

discuss it with her girlfriend and suggest a wax or hair removal?

What if she says it is a tradition in her family.

change is good!! break with tradition?

Girl, Do u got a hairy chest or something??????


j/k

While others have no problem blurting out things that could be hurtful to them.

You might be surprised how many women have a genetic trait or hormonal issue that can cause hair to grow on their chests...some races are more genetically inclined than others and it's not anything she can help, but most women will simply wax it off. I would tell someone if it bothers them to discuss it with them casually. She would likely not mind waxing it at all and has probably had it her whole life and does not view it as disgusting...just a normal part of her body.

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This is why you stand out amongst other people on here. You don`t shoot others down. You think exactly what you are going to post before you do. This is another reason why I consider you one of my dearest friends on here.

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Treat others as you would want to be treated was how I was raised...that's all. I know most people here are not intentionally putting people down. I think we all get carried away at times and don't realize who it might hurt.

OMG, so my saying that a woman that has a hairy chest is disgusting is hurting someones feelings, when the threads are to voice YOUR opinions of the situation/ question that is stated-why posts such a ? to begin with?????? Blurting things out, well the ? was blurted out.

YES it is disgusting, I said it, and will not say I am sorry for saying it.... IT IS DISGUSTING,,,,,,,,, MY OPINION!!!!!!!!!

Just because I said that does not mean that I am less educated and get on here to hurt people's feelings by any means, or that someone needs to come behind me and get down on my opinions, damn. I am not like that, however I will post what I think of a thread, and if you dont want people to do that, then dont start/ post on a thread.

A ? was asked and I answered it.

I meant no offence to you. If I offended you in any way. I am sorry and I do apologize.

When I was younger, I was very heavyset and the butt of a lot of peoples jokes. I just put myself in the place of this person.

Everyone has their opinion. You opinion and my opinion may not match, but I value your right to your opinion as I hope that you would value my right to mine.

I once again. I meant no offence to you and I am sorry and do apologize to you if I offended you.

I certainly meant no offense to you. I guess I took it as harsh that you answer the question of how to talk about this WITHOUT hurting her feelings...with..."that is disgusting". I'm not sure how that qualifies as an answer to the question. I did not take the question as asking for personal opinions about the condition itself.

My bad. Peace! And may mother nature be kind to you, in sight of your sensitivity to physical imperfections.

So at the end
Back to the question
what we should tell this girl...without hurting her feelings?