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Topic: Picking and Choosing
SuperMom30 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 469	Tue 07/01/08 12:37 PM
I am talking to a few guys. I am interested in one of them more than the others, just so happens he isn't as interested in me. So what should I do? Forget about the one I like more and pursue one of the others? Just curious to see what you all think.

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Tue 07/01/08 12:38 PM
just move on , nothing to see here !

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Tue 07/01/08 12:38 PM
iny, miny, miny, mo!!!

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Tue 07/01/08 12:39 PM
find out which one has the best coconuts

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Tue 07/01/08 12:39 PM
i say have your cake and eat it too, why choose? be friends with all of them until something perhaps takes a more serious turn

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 07/01/08 12:46 PM
Go for the one you like more!!

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Tue 07/01/08 12:56 PM
If the guy you are interested in isn't as interested in you as you are him, why bother to waste your time? Most likely he's not going to change his mind.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Tue 07/01/08 01:33 PM
I agree with this - just have fun i say have your cake and eat it too, why choose? be friends with all of them until something perhaps takes a more serious turn

yamaharuss Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 563	Tue 07/01/08 01:45 PM
pick me! pick me!!

SuperMom30 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 469	Tue 07/01/08 01:46 PM
pick me! pick me!! Well....what do you ahve to offer?

yamaharuss Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 563	Tue 07/01/08 01:51 PM
I'm really good at manging my monthly allotment of food stamps.

SuperMom30 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 469	Tue 07/01/08 02:02 PM
Well that is something! I am sure you have a lot more to offer.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 07/01/08 02:03 PM
Well that is something! I am sure you have a lot more to offer. When in doubt turn to a coinflip...that way if it fails, you can blame the damn coin.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Tue 07/01/08 02:05 PM
I am talking to a few guys. I am interested in one of them more than the others, just so happens he isn't as interested in me. So what should I do? Forget about the one I like more and pursue one of the others? Just curious to see what you all think. Stalk him, and if he doesn't comply, boil his family pet.. Oh, wrong movie... If by "as interested" you mean "not interested", then it's time to move on. Otherwise, it may just be a time thing. Don't kid yourself though, you know intuitively which way he's really going. Trust that intuition.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 02:06 PM
If you're just getting to know them, then why do you have to choose? Just talk and see what transpires, you may find that the one you thought you like the best so far pales in comparison to one of the fellas that likes you more. Or you may discover that the first one likes you more than you know. Just communicate for now.

yamaharuss Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 563	Tue 07/01/08 02:09 PM
Well that is something! I am sure you have a lot more to offer. I could send photos.. but I think there's another thread in a different forum for that.

SuperMom30 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 469	Tue 07/01/08 02:13 PM
hmmm...that may be a good idea!

Troublemaker7 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 326	Tue 07/01/08 03:59 PM
No need to narrow it down until someone gives you a reason to!!! Keep meeting new people until one stands up and makes you take notice.