Topic: Dating or a Relationship
iRon's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:41 AM


Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations....


I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell.....


I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool


Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........


AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies....






I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that??


I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womemlaugh laugh laugh laugh

ladyliz1417's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:43 AM



Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations....


I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell.....


I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool


Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........


AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies....






I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that??


I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womemlaugh laugh laugh laugh
This happens to me as well. Guys depend on my independance and expect me to take care of them. Not gonna happen!!!!

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:45 AM



Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations....


I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell.....


I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool


Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........


AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies....






I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that??


I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womemlaugh laugh laugh laugh
Iron!!! You do realize that you now need a new profile cause everyone now knows about your house and car...I promise not to give out your credit score though.rofl

iRon's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:56 AM




Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations....


I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell.....


I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool


Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........


AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies....






I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that??


I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womemlaugh laugh laugh laugh
Iron!!! You do realize that you now need a new profile cause everyone now knows about your house and car...I promise not to give out your credit score though.rofl


No need, because with right person I would love to share my life and all that I have with......KEYWORDS "right person" maybe my standards are too high. One of them standards is they have good life too. Two good lifes would make a great life and thats what I want and will settle for no less.....I don't think I am wrong but I am lonelygrumble Got to go to work....

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 06/28/08 10:11 AM
I would like to first exsperiance a REAL date.
:laughing: (Seeing as I have not had a date yet.)

A relationship would be a much in the future
thing for me. I would like to date for awhile
and enjoy getting to know people. Perhaps through
dating- a relationship will develope latter on.

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 02:43 PM
Sounds like most people have a Relationship in mind.

DestinysDream's photo
Sat 06/28/08 02:51 PM
I want a relationship, but I am going to have to date to get there. Along the way I have already met new friends and have new encounters and experiences. flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 02:58 PM
Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs

msmyka's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:03 PM

Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:05 PM


Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.


Then you is (are) lucky :wink:

msmyka's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:06 PM



Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.


Then you is (are) lucky :wink:


It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly.

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:14 PM




Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.


Then you is (are) lucky :wink:


It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly.



Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean?

msmyka's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:21 PM





Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.


Then you is (are) lucky :wink:


It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly.



Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean?


I see your point but WHY are you being eaten alive by a tiger? Are you on safari in africa? Do you work at a zoo cleaning tiger cages? One has to consider the environment they have put themselves in. Life is not so random as we may think. People really need to accept that they are deciding factor in how their lives play out.

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:33 PM
Edited by Random_Stranger on Sat 06/28/08 03:36 PM






Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.


Then you is (are) lucky :wink:


It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly.



Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean?


I see your point but WHY are you being eaten alive by a tiger? Are you on safari in africa? Do you work at a zoo cleaning tiger cages? One has to consider the environment they have put themselves in. Life is not so random as we may think. People really need to accept that they are deciding factor in how their lives play out.


Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy.


People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw.

Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying.

msmyka's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:37 PM
Edited by msmyka on Sat 06/28/08 03:43 PM







Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs


My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities.


Then you is (are) lucky :wink:


It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly.



Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean?


I see your point but WHY are you being eaten alive by a tiger? Are you on safari in africa? Do you work at a zoo cleaning tiger cages? One has to consider the environment they have put themselves in. Life is not so random as we may think. People really need to accept that they are deciding factor in how their lives play out.


Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy.


I believe all things happen for a reason and if you must be hunted and mauled by a beautiful tiger to learn how to protect yourself from future attacks then, so be it. In this case the only possibility you have ruled out is this one tiger, still endless possibilities await!

I'm not saying all possibilities are good possibilities, there will still be tigers and teddy bears. At least you will be able to see the difference HOPEFULLY before you get mauled by a tiger again.

msmyka's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:47 PM


Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy.


People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw.

Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying.


Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past.

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:49 PM



Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy.


People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw.

Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying.


Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past.


LOL I don't get mauled by tigers anymore. I just feed them poison if they look hungry. I was just trying to make a statement is all. In fact, I don't even venture in those areas. I chill in my car and just scope the view. It'll happen one day. :wink:

msmyka's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:52 PM




Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy.


People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw.

Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying.


Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past.


LOL I don't get mauled by tigers anymore. I just feed them poison if they look hungry. I was just trying to make a statement is all. In fact, I don't even venture in those areas. I chill in my car and just scope the view. It'll happen one day. :wink:


Glad to hear you have tigers under control, but becarful of those cougars! rofl

They are even more dangerous and less conspicuous!

hikerchick's photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:57 PM

I think that most people are interested in a relationship, but only on their explicit terms. Uncompromising, my way or the highway type relationships, each for their own personal reasons based on their experiences.
We can't all be as flexible as you, darling.flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 03:58 PM





Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy.


People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw.

Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying.


Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past.


LOL I don't get mauled by tigers anymore. I just feed them poison if they look hungry. I was just trying to make a statement is all. In fact, I don't even venture in those areas. I chill in my car and just scope the view. It'll happen one day. :wink:


Glad to hear you have tigers under control, but becarful of those cougars! rofl

They are even more dangerous and less conspicuous!


Oh........ Lord knows I love wrastlin (yes I said Wrastlin!) those cougars...... laugh