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Topic: Dating a churchgoer
transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Fri 06/27/08 10:30 PM
I could. I'm starting to think that it's the only way to find someone whose ideals are similar enough.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:30 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. I assume you're not a smoker then! no- what does smoking have to do with the topic? because you have to plan everything around the it..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. oh..so smoking and churchgoing are simliar?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 10:30 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. To be fair, i dont think any guy would just out and say 'well the reason i'm not going to be with you is that you go to church! But then again, i doubt you would want to be with someone who had a problem with it. You're right! Spending time with anyone who doesn't share faith would not be something I would do. I feel I've done my time in spending time with non going church people......UGG I agree

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 10:31 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 06/27/08 10:31 PM
i'd accept it if i felt love for the person anything is worth it if it feels right

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 10:32 PM
i'd accept it if i felt love for the person anything is worth it if it feels right thats right

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/27/08 10:32 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 10:33 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. I agreed with you?

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 06/27/08 10:33 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. PITA?

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:33 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. I agreed with you? some people are easily offended.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:33 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. PITA? pain in the ass

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/27/08 10:34 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. I agreed with you? [/quote I'm overjoyed

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Fri 06/27/08 10:35 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. I assume you're not a smoker then! no- what does smoking have to do with the topic? because you have to plan everything around the it..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. oh..so smoking and churchgoing are simliar? yea, i'm kinda not getting that either. I think the parralell is that going to church wastes time and money or something, and smoking does to. Though so does food, and vacations.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 06/27/08 10:35 PM
regular church going kinda guy. Michiganman Winx. Moderate politics, honest. Not fanantical either. You're alright in my book.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Fri 06/27/08 10:36 PM
No. Evently it becames an issue. I don't belive in God, so how can I respect someone who in my opinion is basing thier life on religon? If they truly belive they will want a partner that shares at least basic belifs, or they will constantly be trying to "save" you.

whow Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 100	Fri 06/27/08 10:37 PM
i'd accept it if i felt love for the person anything is worth it if it feels right What if it were really serious, with marriage a mutual goal, but the other person would not marry you unless you joined the religion? Does that still qualify as worth it?

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/27/08 10:38 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. I agreed with you? some people are easily offended.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Fri 06/27/08 10:38 PM Edited by michiganman3 on Fri 06/27/08 10:42 PM
I think you are alright too. It could be a problem if different religious backgrounds or faiths couldn't be reconciled.

whow Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 100	Fri 06/27/08 10:39 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. I assume you're not a smoker then! no- what does smoking have to do with the topic? because you have to plan everything around the it..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. oh..so smoking and churchgoing are simliar? yea, i'm kinda not getting that either. I think the parralell is that going to church wastes time and money or something, and smoking does to. Though so does food, and vacations. I'm still trying to quit food.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 06/27/08 10:40 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. PITA? pain in the ass I learned something new tonight.