people are so in a rush to meet?? i seriously talk to someone for no more then a hour and sometimes it seems like their in a rush to meet..whats the hurry?

cause guys dont think of future sex - they think of sex now

well because they just want to meet and get the rejection over with

Is that so?

yeah... i feel ya on that. Desperation is not exactly a turn on...

I totally know what you mean. Funny thing is, normally they want the woman to come to them..hahah

Welcome Chelle

I've noticed that too... they always want to meet so we can.. you know, do IT..haha... sorry guys, I'm not some cheap, easy bimbo that you're used to dating. If you want that go to the local corner and find your girlfriend.

they are just looking to hook up. They don't want to waste time getting to know someone when they aren't really interested in a relationship.

Its not always sex for some people if someone is lonely they are just are tired of being alone and not having anyone in their life.

I am finally meeting after two months...I think that's good timing. I don't know what will happen, but it is certainly no booty call. Don't let someone do that to you. I think if it feels like a booty call, it usually is one.

i agree with that

If they want to meet right away...I know they are not for me!! I think this is an easy way to figure out who are the good ones and who are the bad ones!!!

They want to go thru the entire jsh membership roster..

dont they all say that?

its funny..maybe they arnt? it doesnt seem like it sometimes!...ugh i hate rushing..and im def not some easy piece of a*s..if thats the case they will have to look else where!

The longer I'm online, the more this makes sense to me, in a way (meeting sooner rather than later). I hear over and over about people having a great 'connection' with someone online - only to meet down the road and discover there was no chemistry, etc. and then they're both left disappointed and disillusioned b/c they've invested an enormous amount of time, energy and emotion into something that might have never gone further than a cup of coffee if they'd met in the 'real' world.

ETA: But there's also those that are obviously rushing to get to the 'good stuff' ... warning bells usually start going off early in those situations - I think I'm referring to a different scenario.

Yes, I feel the same way.

lol its soo true..some guy wanted me to drive 2 hours away just to meet him since he doesnt drive..YEAH RIGHT! lol

I date to meet opposite sex to have laughs and friendships
If someone comes heavy ist date I am through
Some women want to tie the knot the fist ten minutes of the first date I say plantins