Why is it that when a female has children guys wont give them the time of day....but when a guy is raising a child on their own they have all the females flocking to them???

They need babysitters

i wonder that same thing.

maybe because they see that the guy has a heart and taking good care of the kids.So the ladies might get treated good too...

my baby gets compliments all the time from every body ...

ok so why do guys tuck their tails and run like a dog when the find out that a woman has kids???

Humm cause Women have bigger hearts then Men do

i think that has to do with a fear of commitment. but im just guessing

ok very true

Ithink your right but doesnt the same consideration apply to single moms??

Really? You think so? I don't flock to guys with children. I have not noticed such a trend.

JMO but I believe you are dealing with the WRONG GUYS ...god luck with that

OOPS my bad ... I meant GOOD luck with that ... ( I guess I am going straight to hell for that one )

it could be a couple of reasons. One is because if you are attracting men your own age then you must consider that a lot of these guys (in their early 20's)are not even considering marriage let alone children. The older you get the less this will be an issue. As far as women flocking to men that have children...well I don't see that.

I don't see that at all. Maybe if I was in my 20's.
But I'm 43, with a 6 year old.
As soon as a woman, even remotely close to my age, sees that I have a small child. She's heading for the hills.
It seems that most females pop out a couple kids. They get themselves fixed. Then are looking for a good guy, After they have kids by the "bad boy" That seem to disappear, when responsibility is on the horizon.

I'm not talking about you. I don't even know you.
I'm talking about the new breed of females in general.

I hope you do find what you're looking for.As well as myself.
Maybe one day we will finish the search.

I think it's because for woman it's expected and for a man it's suprising.

at your age, that isn't surprising. most young men who don't have children yet aren't confident enough to deal with that big of a responsibility. once you get older, it is almost expected that there will be children on one or both sides of the relationship. good luck!

The ladies, who are the nurturing type, get a two-for-one deal with the guy and his kid

wow i am raising my daughter myself and see no flocking of females....

easy you're picking the wrong guys.... if a guy is worth it he'll love your babies just as much as he would love you.. if not why worry about it go on with your life bc obviously you didn't lose anythign worth worrying over.

Hey, I've seen posts from men asking the same thing!!! Some folks don't want to deal with kids, and at least you know right off the bat. A blessing!! Don't let your son get attached to anyone unless you are in a serious relationship, PLEASE!!!!