IM not sure if many of you know but I ended an 11 yr relationship about a month ago..its posted under relationships. She was cheating again.. Well tonight I found out by her (she called) that shes been reading my posts on here. She even has somehow read my emails and knows who I talk to . I imagine it wont be long before she starts posting but the point is I dont need the problems. I have met some really great people here and have received some great advice in a short time. Should I just stop posting? I have seen what she can do in the past and I also know that it wont be long before some of my friends start getting email from her. I dont want any of you caught up in this web. What should I do? Oh and by the way.. Im sure shes going to read this so be careful what you say.

Absolutely .................(kidding)

Damn.......
Uhhhh...Damn......

Stay on, you are a free man

sounds like she knows you pretty good


get new password ideas

dont let her continue to control you or your life!!!

do what you think is right... if I was in ur shoes I would still post an give my friends a heads up

my account > settings > change password

problemo vanisho

make sure she has no way of tracking your
change in password.

then post all you like. email even. have friends. it's OK.

why let her interfer more in your life continue posting and dont let her get the best of you

and if you want to contact me by email just to talk let me know

do whatever you want.

She probably put a keystroke matching program(spyware) on your pc.. Get a new pc(used is ok) and tell her to shove the old one where it'd cause her body the most pain..

I think your right. I dont want to lose the friends Ive made so far. Im just worried, Ive exchanged phone numbers with some and now Im worried that she may have access to them.

just try....it wont let you leave.we have all tried

I don't know you, but:
If she cheated she cheated. If you have no ententions of getting back with her...then why worry?
If she mails you block her, if that's what you want. Of course we do not have all the info....so, I say don't worry too much.
How would she get your mail in here? Change your settings. Good luck.

Stay on She cant stop you from making friends

stick around

stay on but change your password silly :)

honestly you have the right to do and post what you want..i would just change my password and go on my way..just let your friends no what she might do incase they get an e-mail from her they could delete it..if you enjoy this site stay!

run an anti spyware program...and change your password every time you log off. at worst, that will keep her busy. and who cares if she posts? If she gets nasty, that is what the mods are for. Don't just give up and let her run your social life