Give everyone a heads up and just keep on movin on ..

Hey Fish, it's your life - YOU control it, not her.

Couple of points here...

you do not have to be a member here to read the forums.

No one can read your email, not even mods, the admins can, but won't, out of respect for members,

I know this to be factual, i would strongly suggest changing your password.

Mark

AMEN to that! Well said my friend :)

ok here's the thing if she does start emailing your "friends" then you'll find out real soon and also if they are really your friends

don't let her dictate your life and run scared just cause she needs to put you down to make herself feel good

got balls?????

nuff said

New pc, new password, maybe even new email. you should be rid of her.

Thank you

Good point, but then how was she able to tell me the names, and ages of some of the ppl Ive been talking to?
as far as passwords go.. Ive done that many times.. but somehow she still able to access it.. she knows all my personal information.

Thanks fade...and thats what Im trying to do by this post

I've been a victim of spyware on the computer by a partner ... huge violation of not only yours, but your friends privacy. I feel for you, I really, really do. Don't let her bully you, best I can offer!

Stick around.....you have made friends here and us die hard Jsh'er stick together.

If she starts drama and harrasses you she will get banned from the site

She's a stalker indeed... do as others have said.. and maybe take your pc to let someone clean it up or get a new one. Does she have access to your pc or what?

anytime you think you should quit a dating site you should.

your correct my dear.. however not for these circumstances. but thanks for the reply

Is the computer yours or hers? I can tell you exactly how to stop this. I went to school for computers. I do not want to post what to do because she will read it. But just give me the word and I will email you as to what can be done.

please do! and its my pc

Should you quit the site?

No, you like it here and you've found friends. You're gonna need them. Especially now.

Someone should start a post to examine why (some(sic)) women who apparently didn't appreciate the man they had and go to extreme lengths to destroy him as he tries, first to survive the loss after she either dumped him for the latest flash, seeker of a$$, or stack of cash that came sniffing!

Yes, I am another of those Damn good men that busted chops, remained faithful, endured, believed (spell that deluded myself) that she was where she said she was until the bitter end. When finally it was over I tried to make my way back to sanity and self tolerance.

Suddenly I was getting attention and met a nice woman or two who would suddenly change or simply disappear, not returning calls. Maybe I was a %#&@, I thought, sinking lower into despair. Eventually found out she was reading my email, telephone voicemail, and IMs, telling these women God only knows what! Why!? She didn't want me, and would only call me herself teasing a wishful fool.

That's not even the half of it and I never put that out there before but I'm gonna stop there, this is not about me.

Pal, you stay right here where you can talk, laugh, share, cry, and everything else with people who will talk, laugh, share, cry right along with you.

BUT, get a random password generator and change every single password to something that has nothing to do with you. Close any account that uses personal information, ie. birthday, favorite pet, etc to validate. And as challenging as it's gonna be look forward, not back!

I said all that to say
NO, Don't leave a place that's good for you because of someone that's been bad for you!

stick with it, stay here, and if she reads this she can kiss my cold metallic arse.

FYI men do the same crap.