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Topic: Critique for Potential as a husband
Akinyahalo Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2442	Sun 06/22/08 02:31 PM
Ladies What kind of questions would you ask in this kind of critique? How close would this guy have to come to perfect answers to pass and fit as a potential husband?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 06/22/08 02:33 PM
<------Sits back with & watches, This ought to be good!!

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sun 06/22/08 02:34 PM
No such thing as perfect, just want honesty and good communication

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 06/22/08 02:34 PM
No such thing as perfect, just want honesty and good communication

fjr Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 333	Sun 06/22/08 02:35 PM
<------Sits back with & watches, This ought to be good!! LOL

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Sun 06/22/08 02:35 PM
grabs clipboard, pen, serious looking librarian glasses and prepares for the interrogation You're kidding, right?

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sun 06/22/08 02:37 PM
grabs clipboard, pen, serious looking librarian glasses and prepares for the interrogation You're kidding, right?

Akinyahalo Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2442	Sun 06/22/08 02:37 PM
grabs clipboard, pen, serious looking librarian glasses and prepares for the interrogation You're kidding, right? Nope definitly not kidding. I got through half a critique yesterday before the person asking the questions had to leave. It was pretty intense

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sun 06/22/08 02:39 PM
((pats)) No such thing as perfect, just want honesty and good communication

DREAMZ Joined Sat 05/31/08 Posts: 1775	Sun 06/22/08 02:39 PM
Ladies What kind of questions would you ask in this kind of critique? How close would this guy have to come to perfect answers to pass and fit as a potential husband? wow......they are gonna tear you a new hole pal!

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Sun 06/22/08 02:40 PM
grabs clipboard, pen, serious looking librarian glasses and prepares for the interrogation You're kidding, right? Nope definitly not kidding. I got through half a critique yesterday before the person asking the questions had to leave. It was pretty intense Consider yourself lucky ... no self-respecting, mature, honest, caring woman would put a man through that. shakes head It's not about perfection, it's not even about close to perfection ... it's about mutual admiration and enjoyment of one another - quirks, flaws and all.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sun 06/22/08 02:41 PM
I don't want a husband and if I did I wouldn't interview for one.

Akinyahalo Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2442	Sun 06/22/08 02:42 PM
grabs clipboard, pen, serious looking librarian glasses and prepares for the interrogation You're kidding, right? Nope definitly not kidding. I got through half a critique yesterday before the person asking the questions had to leave. It was pretty intense Consider yourself lucky ... no self-respecting, mature, honest, caring woman would put a man through that. shakes head It's not about perfection, it's not even about close to perfection ... it's about mutual admiration and enjoyment of one another - quirks, flaws and all. They never said I had to be perfect or even close to it. They were just asking questions and if you read what i wrote is how close does the guy you are questioning have to come to perfect answers fro your questions not how close to perfect does he have to be.

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Sun 06/22/08 02:55 PM
grabs clipboard, pen, serious looking librarian glasses and prepares for the interrogation You're kidding, right? Nope definitly not kidding. I got through half a critique yesterday before the person asking the questions had to leave. It was pretty intense Consider yourself lucky ... no self-respecting, mature, honest, caring woman would put a man through that. shakes head It's not about perfection, it's not even about close to perfection ... it's about mutual admiration and enjoyment of one another - quirks, flaws and all. They never said I had to be perfect or even close to it. They were just asking questions and if you read what i wrote is how close does the guy you are questioning have to come to perfect answers fro your questions not how close to perfect does he have to be. Oh, I'm sorry - I was trying to be nice by saying you were treated in a way that seemed offensive and/or demeaning. Misinterpreting your original question and trying to give an honest, helpful reply, does not, imo, merit a "if you read what I wrote" response.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 06/22/08 04:07 PM
I don't interview. I just let the conversations, the MANY conversations flow naturally and sometimes, if you're lucky, your hearts just make a connection.

Akinyahalo Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2442	Sun 06/22/08 06:09 PM
I don't interview. I just let the conversations, the MANY conversations flow naturally and sometimes, if you're lucky, your hearts just make a connection. It wasn't really an interview for any specific female it was more to see if i have the goods so the can play matchmaker for me

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Sun 06/22/08 09:31 PM
If you have to fit a certain set of criteria then you might as well walk away. If the person isn't gonna accept you for who you are then it wont work out.