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Topic: Questions about "Your Friends"
iRon's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:21 PM
I was just contacted by a lady on here and her opening line was "By the pictures of "your friends" I may not be your type" and I have had similar comments from other ladies....

My "friends" are people I have met and talk too sometimes only once or twice and some of them I talk to a lot.

So here is my question:

Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person?

FaithfulOne78's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:23 PM
Not at all...maybe thru that person..you can make even more friends...drinker drinker

brooke007's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:24 PM
it shouldnt

no photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:24 PM
She contacted you first?...just to tell you that she was not your type?...and where are the pictures of your friends?
Kind of confusing....



Beavis31's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:24 PM
its kinda hard for me to reply to some one that has like hundreds of "friends"....So i guess that would be a yes vote from me....

somewhatshy2's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:25 PM
sometimes it does...sometimes it can be intimidating...when you look at the "friends" and all of them are very beautiful young women, it can sometimes scare someone that might be less attractive...but on the other hand if the profile was welcoming, I suck it up and send a hello email anyway.flowerforyou

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:25 PM
If so, all of MY friends are screwed.

snash02's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:26 PM
your real friends my play a role but thats only if meeting on here reaches out to not online other the that your online friends should not make a difference thats like judging a book by its cover ... its kinda wrong

FaithfulOne78's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:26 PM

its kinda hard for me to reply to some one that has like hundreds of "friends"....So i guess that would be a yes vote from me....


Why does it matter how many "friends" someone has?flowerforyou

FaithfulOne78's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:26 PM

If so, all of MY friends are screwed.


devil devil really?laugh laugh

DestinysDream's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:27 PM
Sometimes if I see they have mutiple persons who are a#$@oles on their friends list. Other than tha no.

Its funny one person I know has someone on their friends list who is a fake. They know it but still have them there. LOL, go figure.

Lily0923's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:27 PM

I was just contacted by a lady on here and her opening line was "By the pictures of "your friends" I may not be your type" and I have had similar comments from other ladies....

My "friends" are people I have met and talk too sometimes only once or twice and some of them I talk to a lot.

So here is my question:

Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person?


Yes, it does, if a guy has a bunch of scantilly clad women as their friends, I do not even bother with him.

Sorry but it's true.

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:29 PM
I'd e-mail her back and say..."Darlin' it isnt my friends that makes you not my type...its your ATTITUDE!!!"

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:30 PM
I don't make first contact with men...but if I did, I might be hesitant if they had NO friends and had been here a while. But don't think that would stop me, cause they might just be shy. flowerforyou

mandyatl81's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:30 PM


I was just contacted by a lady on here and her opening line was "By the pictures of "your friends" I may not be your type" and I have had similar comments from other ladies....

My "friends" are people I have met and talk too sometimes only once or twice and some of them I talk to a lot.

So here is my question:

Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person?


Yes, it does, if a guy has a bunch of scantilly clad women as their friends, I do not even bother with him.

Sorry but it's true.


that's so true lily...it makes me wonder about people who say they only want friends but don't have any of the same sex friends on their list and all you see is half naked people on their list

lilangel2's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:32 PM
It doesn't bother me. Most people's friends on here really aren' their friends anyway...just acquaintances.Most don't even email each other. I have a few i email regularly. The rest are just sitting there staring back at me.

Lily0923's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:32 PM



I was just contacted by a lady on here and her opening line was "By the pictures of "your friends" I may not be your type" and I have had similar comments from other ladies....

My "friends" are people I have met and talk too sometimes only once or twice and some of them I talk to a lot.

So here is my question:

Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person?


Yes, it does, if a guy has a bunch of scantilly clad women as their friends, I do not even bother with him.

Sorry but it's true.


that's so true lily...it makes me wonder about people who say they only want friends but don't have any of the same sex friends on their list and all you see is half naked people on their list


It means they only want friends with who will send them pics and have no strings attacheched...laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:34 PM
iRon, I looked at your friends list, and don't see anything wrong with it... She's just a freak, ignore her...

mandyatl81's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:34 PM




I was just contacted by a lady on here and her opening line was "By the pictures of "your friends" I may not be your type" and I have had similar comments from other ladies....

My "friends" are people I have met and talk too sometimes only once or twice and some of them I talk to a lot.

So here is my question:

Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person?


Yes, it does, if a guy has a bunch of scantilly clad women as their friends, I do not even bother with him.

Sorry but it's true.


that's so true lily...it makes me wonder about people who say they only want friends but don't have any of the same sex friends on their list and all you see is half naked people on their list


It means they only want friends with who will send them pics and have no strings attacheched...laugh laugh laugh


that's kind of disturbing when you think about the people that have 200+ friends on their list...what are they doing making a photo album?

no photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:37 PM
It can be off-putting at times. It really depends on the specific circumstances.

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