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Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person? Well, I don't contact anybody first -- but if I did, I would have to say that there's very little possibility that their friends list would have any impact on my decision. I would be contacting that person, not their friends, some (all?) of whom might not even really "know" the contactee at all. These things happen. |
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IMO I think some people think getting viewed, or friends request, or emails is a popularity contest. For those of us who are a tad insecure, having a lot of friends on your profile can be intimidating, especially when those "friends" are the "beautiful" or "cool" people.
Again, IMO!   
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that's kind of disturbing when you think about the people that have 200+ friends on their list...what are they doing making a photo album? They are called "collectors" I just got an email from one, who was mad because I don't talk to her enough.. then she says "you look like you gained weight" Uhm, delete??? |
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IMO I think some people think getting viewed, or friends request, or emails is a popularity contest. For those of us who are a tad insecure, having a lot of friends on your profile can be intimidating, especially when those "friends" are the "beautiful" or "cool" people. Again, IMO!
You're beautiful and cool, you can be my friend...
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that's kind of disturbing when you think about the people that have 200+ friends on their list...what are they doing making a photo album? They are called "collectors" I just got an email from one, who was mad because I don't talk to her enough.. then she says "you look like you gained weight" Uhm, delete??? omg  ...people are so retarded sometimes...i think you look great lily...
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It doesn't bother me. Most people's friends on here really aren' their friends anyway...just acquaintances.Most don't even email each other. I have a few i email regularly. The rest are just sitting there staring back at me. I'm really asking this sincerely. Why do you keep them if they are not even acquaintances? Maybe I've been doing this all wrong. I delete if contact stops! 
I like reading your posts, by the way!
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that's kind of disturbing when you think about the people that have 200+ friends on their list...what are they doing making a photo album? They are called "collectors" I just got an email from one, who was mad because I don't talk to her enough.. then she says "you look like you gained weight" Uhm, delete??? omg ...people are so retarded sometimes...i think you look great lily...
Then I sent an email and she won't read it... My loss huh? oh brother...
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IMO I think some people think getting viewed, or friends request, or emails is a popularity contest. For those of us who are a tad insecure, having a lot of friends on your profile can be intimidating, especially when those "friends" are the "beautiful" or "cool" people. Again, IMO!
You're beautiful and cool, you can be my friend...
That's so sweet! But, if you don't email me at least daily, I will delete you! 
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IMO I think some people think getting viewed, or friends request, or emails is a popularity contest. For those of us who are a tad insecure, having a lot of friends on your profile can be intimidating, especially when those "friends" are the "beautiful" or "cool" people. Again, IMO!
You're beautiful and cool, you can be my friend...
That's so sweet! But, if you don't email me at least daily, I will delete you!
Oh well then I have a psycho ex "friend" I can hook you up with... i'm here to serve doll...
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it happens
some people judge you by the friends you keep |
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[ Yes, it does, if a guy has a bunch of scantilly clad women as their friends, I do not even bother with him. Sorry but it's true. I have to go along with this. It might be an assumption on my part, but I don't it's a huge leap. |
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I actually had this conversation with a male friend the other day ... and yes, I was intimidated by his 'friends' photos - I felt like a fish out of water in their company and would not have emailed him first. Silly, maybe - but sometimes insecurity and/or self-preservation takes over. We had a laugh about it after the fact, but goes to show how misleading or prohibitive things like photos (even profile pics) can be in getting to know the 'real' person.
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iRon, I looked at your friends list, and don't see anything wrong with it... She's just a freak, ignore her... Well there you go, good input and where were you when I met my second wife? 
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Edited by
noblenan
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Sat 06/21/08 03:13 PM
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IMO I think some people think getting viewed, or friends request, or emails is a popularity contest. For those of us who are a tad insecure, having a lot of friends on your profile can be intimidating, especially when those "friends" are the "beautiful" or "cool" people. Again, IMO!
You're beautiful and cool, you can be my friend...
That's so sweet! But, if you don't email me at least daily, I will delete you!
Oh well then I have a psycho ex "friend" I can hook you up with... i'm here to serve doll...
That's ok, I'll pass on the ex! But, I'm sending you a friend request as we speak! Obviously, I have been doing this all wrong all this time!
PS I like reading your posts, too...most of the time.
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iRon, I looked at your friends list, and don't see anything wrong with it... She's just a freak, ignore her... Well there you go, good input and where were you when I met my second wife?
Probably dealing with my own marriage...
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It doesn't bother me. Most people's friends on here really aren' their friends anyway...just acquaintances.Most don't even email each other. I have a few i email regularly. The rest are just sitting there staring back at me. I'm really asking this sincerely. Why do you keep them if they are not even acquaintances? Maybe I've been doing this all wrong. I delete if contact stops!
I like reading your posts, by the way!
If people find it off-putting, what can I say? This is me. I have friends here and IRL and if someone can't deal with that, then they are not the person for me. |
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After Hiker added me as a friend, I noticed 14 of her friends quit the site.
 
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After Hiker added me as a friend, I noticed 14 of her friends quit the site.
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I was just contacted by a lady on here and her opening line was "By the pictures of "your friends" I may not be your type" and I have had similar comments from other ladies.... My "friends" are people I have met and talk too sometimes only once or twice and some of them I talk to a lot. So here is my question: Dose a person's "friends" play any roll in you contacting or not contacting a person? I think for me it's more in the Testimonials i have. I been told that i seem to be well liked a few times because of all the Testimonials i have. |
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Well, now I'm crushed! I asked Lily to be my friend and haven't gotten a response! Took five minutes being perved and missed my chance!
PS My grandson loves looking at your pics, Hiker!
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