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Topic: Red Flags
No1sLove's photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:43 PM
Edited by No1sLove on Fri 06/20/08 05:44 PM
Rude to the waiter/waitress

Smells like liquor when he shows up...if he has to hit the bottle to date me, I'm out! laugh

Talks about the ex all night.

Takes you to his exes hang out.

Runs into his ex on our date.

Constant touching...is he trying to grope me or does he want his mommy? grumble

I'm exhausted, so I'll stop with just this ONE GUY! noway grumble :angry: laugh laugh laugh




Lordling's photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:45 PM
In response to:

Opening a door for them, they sneer and say, "I'm not helpless, you know!!"
ohwell

Telling them that they look nice (on first meeting), they narrow their eyes and say, "I guess you expected to me to be a fat cow, huh? Well, what would you have done if I was?"
huh

Friendly advice: Never tell a woman that they look good in anything (it can lead to the possible deduction that you might think that they would look bad in something else)...It's usually better to say that it looks good on them!
laugh

no photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:48 PM
Edited by sexi_PHAT on Fri 06/20/08 05:48 PM
If he talked bad about his mother or other women that have been or is in his life or just women in generalnoway thats a big RED FLAG to me that he will not have respect for menoway

trace78's photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:50 PM


when someone says:

"not hungry, want to go to my place and watch a movie" (this is a date disaster if its the first one)



Why? Other then the obvious conitation that they might be trying to get in the other persons pants.


no offense, but in my opinion, if they want to get into your pants that fast, and the feeling is not mutual, the sex aint good, never is. The mystery and excitement of it all turns out to be better than the 3 minutes of bad sex. Just a red flag in my opinion.

Unique2468's photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:54 PM



when someone says:

"not hungry, want to go to my place and watch a movie" (this is a date disaster if its the first one)



Why? Other then the obvious conitation that they might be trying to get in the other persons pants.


no offense, but in my opinion, if they want to get into your pants that fast, and the feeling is not mutual, the sex aint good, never is. The mystery and excitement of it all turns out to be better than the 3 minutes of bad sex. Just a red flag in my opinion.


Nah i'll agree with that. I'm not a big fan of sex on the first date either. Though you know how much of a pain it is to explain to a girl that you still want a 2nd date after you reject there advances?

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:56 PM
ohwell When the girl always comes to your house and she lives in another state and all you know about her is what she tells youohwell

trace78's photo
Fri 06/20/08 05:59 PM


no offense, but in my opinion, if they want to get into your pants that fast, and the feeling is not mutual, the sex aint good, never is. The mystery and excitement of it all turns out to be better than the 3 minutes of bad sex. Just a red flag in my opinion.


Nah i'll agree with that. I'm not a big fan of sex on the first date either. Though you know how much of a pain it is to explain to a girl that you still want a 2nd date after you reject there advances?


well, im not a big fan either, but im also a responsible and grown woman. I think im allowed to make advances, and take advances without having to have sex. A woman and a man should know how to show interest in the opposite sex without it being just to procreate (plus lets no pass up every good thing):wink:

Blaze1978's photo
Sat 06/21/08 09:46 PM
Red flag: if she mines for green gold and orally consumes whatever delightful yellow or green nuggets and deposits she may come across.sick

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

hikerchick's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:11 PM


when someone says:

"not hungry, want to go to my place and watch a movie" (this is a date disaster if its the first one)



Why? Other then the obvious conitation that they might be trying to get in the other persons pants.
somebody who tries to get into your pants on the first date is not worthy of a second date.

Kla's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:18 PM
if they don't make eye contact.

speaking with your mouth full,burp at the table.. any of those bad manner things.

if they act differently, in a bad way, around their friends then they do around you

if they don't treat their mother well ( obviously something you fid out a little bit into the relationship)

if they are cruel to ANY of your pets.

if they drop the "l" word within the first week or so.. run like your being chased by the cops and you did something wrong!

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