i was here like a month or two ago, i think. the community was always pretty nice. i have a common question thats probably asked a lot, but i felt best to make my own topic.

im bipolar, and really inexperienced with relationships. they normally end within a month, because of me. because of my anxiety and self esteem, it normally takes me awhile to start another relationship... just for it to end. ive been talking with someone for 2 months now, everyday. lives 3 states away from me. shes bipolar too, and were really good friends. i can relocate with my job, and even if the worse was to happen, i can always get a job at walmart. im 20 years old, good credit, including rental credit for apartments... i dont really have parents to fall back on. most of my family is either dead, or dead to me. think i should move to be with her? i analyze everything, and i think for the most part it would work. but im no good with cues and people. the hassle and the rush might ruin things between us.

does moving ever work? is it only for rich people?

would you be happy living 3 states away if it did not work with this girl? that is what i would be asking myself. i to suffer with the same mental illness so i feel you and wish you the best.

go where your heart tells you to go...life is a journey

If you moved and it didn't work out with her, would you be okay to stay there on your own? If you move there, will you have your own place to start off with so you could grow your relationship without that intense situation of living together first?

First of all the first question I must ask is have you two meet face to face yet?

If not do so before you just pick up and move.

For so many times what seems to be there over the phone through e-mails ect....

Are not there in person.

Then if you meet and it is all that go with what your heart desires.

My sister in-law is Bi-Polar funny I did not even know it for like 2 years. As long as she takes her meds shshss one would never know it so to me some use this as and excuse in life.

Don't let and illness of any kind hold one back take meds to correct what you can and hit the support groups if needed.

For you don't have the plague or anything your just unique in your own way.

First of all and hugs for you!

Yes, I would move for love. If you truly found The One, which is so rare these days, why let miles keep you apart from that incredible life??

I can do my job anywhere with an internet connection, so no problem there.

If you are uncertain I would not move there 'for her'. Move there for yourself and let the 'you and her' develop.
Be prepared to be on your own there, if things do not work out between you.

Best of luck to you!

If you can move. And things work out great.
If things don't work out. And you can still maintain. That's a plus to move.



Unfortuneatly I'm not able to move.I have too much invested where I'm at.

If I was you. I'd be gone, yesterday.

I am impressed couldn't have put more eloquently.

Voice of experience

lol, ok. thanks. i need some time to think about it now.

thank you

You could just as easily feed each other's illnesses or confuse a manic moment with real love. TAKE YOUR TIME. Take it slow, breathe, and no pole vaulting over mouse turds for you.

Charlie don't surf but can say cool stuff

LOVE! LOVE! LOVE

Maybe you are so excited due to the fact that this one has last for more then a month, that you aren't thinking clearly? (just an observation, not an accusation) I would give it just a little bit more time.IMHO

Besides, if you have a decent job where you are, you don't want to have to settle for less (not that working at Wal-mart is a bad thing) if it doesn't work out and end up struggling in the end.

ooooooooo..sounds AWEOSME!!
good luck!! even if u are a blue box

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