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Well, it seems everytime I drop bye, no one my age is ever on.... oh
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age doesnt matter to me. try something new. ya might like it.
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yeah, what 4fun said
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yep nothin but a number
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yes just a number... by ole Maxine, she's got life figured out
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nah if I knew what was goin on I would be way too dangerous
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Well, I'm kinda close to your age, but W. Virginia is too far away! HAHA
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love does not care about age
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Age is not "just a number." Two is "just a number." Although it is a
very nice number, indeed. If a person has physically, intellectually and emotionally progressed "normally," there is a significant difference in a person who's, say, 40, and a person who's, say, 20. |
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Well, ok..cc, but Maxine is an idol..lol
How are you Sushi |
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age--------what age?------
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Famous last words,,,,,,
But officer, She told me she was 18 ........ lol |
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lol@iam4u--
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I agree with jean. Age is important, no one wants to be left in the dust
because their young thing wakes up one day and says what am I doing with this old fart. Because now your just an older fart than you were. BUT here's the thing. We're taught to build and plan for the future, but what if the future is not going to go beyond say 5 years. So what if you hook up with someone much younger but refuse to commit because of the age thing. You break her heart and yours for fear of a future disappointment. But then a year from now you hear she was hit by a car and died. She could have been the love of your live, you WOULD have been the love of hers. We can not fear to tread where love chooses to take us. Sometimes the gain is worth the risk. |
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Gwen was 7 yrs older. Best life I have ever had.
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you can't generalize about this kind of thing. everyone is individual.
oldsage had an incredible experience with a woman who was 7 years older. i dated a girl who was 4 years older and she turned out to be incredibly needy and immature. |
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Frst GUESS; comitted to fast. We had a fantastic friendship that grew
to more. About 2+ yrs from friends to lovers. Just my opinion, people rush things, get comittment in their head BEFORE they really know the each other. Just a thought. |
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Well, I don't know about anyone else, but I'd never have a relationship
with someone 20 years my junior ...or my senior. It has nothing to do with what their personality is, in terms of whether or not we'd be compatible; it has nothing to do with whether or not they'd turn out to be "needy and immature;" it has to do with, generally speaking, the two people have little in the way of life's experiences in which you can relate to one another. And again, by that I don't mean someone who's 25 and who has (seemingly) "lived a lifetime." I went through hell before I turned 25, but I've still grown, learned, lived and experienced more in the ensuing years and have matured in a way that no 20-something ever could have -- until they actually have lived life themselves for that many years. A 10-year or so age difference (being from the same decade, for instance) to me, isn't that big of a deal, but if you're talking 15, 20...no way. I don't need another child to raise; I do prefer dating younger men, for the most part, but 20 years' difference would be, to me, is far too wide a margin. |
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I would think age shouldn't matter, it's all about comfort and if he or
she isn't comfortable with a big age difference then find you're comfort zone. I look at my age as how I feel on the inside and out I'm much younger at heart. I feel 35. |
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to much of a difference in age puts up a really large barrier in
communication different generations face different probs at different times i found out first hand it dont work, |
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