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Topic: am I wrong?
MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Mon 06/09/08 11:16 AM
Do you mean women are emailing you and you respond with "Not interested"? wow Gypsy nice set of white shirt you have on there

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 06/09/08 11:17 AM
Honesty comes in many different ways. It all depends on how you say your not interested. If only in those words then I understand. Some seem to have to go into detail and pointing out every little thing in a very harsh way. To me that is not being honest. But at times down right rude. We all have our preference in what we desire and there is nothing wrong with that as long as we get it across in a tactful way.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 06/09/08 11:18 AM
Yea basically they are all interested and im not. And im being honest with them but then Im an a**hole. Wow, that's too bad. I guess the women that you said that to just can't handle rejection. If a guy responds with "Sorry, not interested" I'm fine with that, and move on. No point in making a fool of myself by replying back with some rude remark.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 06/09/08 11:18 AM
I could be friends. But I have enough friends and im not to concerned with more. fair enough, as long as your not rude to these women theres no more you can do. maybe put on your profile, your looking for a slim lady??

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Mon 06/09/08 11:18 AM
o I understand that. Im not on here to judge. And i know I aint perfect so I am tactfull

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 06/09/08 11:19 AM
Yea basically they are all interested and im not. And im being honest with them but then Im an a**hole. Well.......you are being honest but you are also taking people at "face/body" value. Maybe that person you just said that to is a great person, just not physically beautiful the first time you see her? I do know where youre coming from though....when I was young I just went out with the good looking azzzzzzholes........

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Mon 06/09/08 11:20 AM
Yea basically they are all interested and im not. And im being honest with them but then Im an a**hole. Well.......you are being honest but you are also taking people at "face/body" value. Maybe that person you just said that to is a great person, just not physically beautiful the first time you see her? I do know where youre coming from though....when I was young I just went out with the good looking azzzzzzholes........ SHe doesnt have to be a BArbie. Im not exactly romeo here. I just want some physical connectiion to go along with all the other good things in a relationship

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 06/09/08 11:20 AM
What about now??? would you consider an avg. looking balding asshole????? Yea basically they are all interested and im not. And im being honest with them but then Im an a**hole. Well.......you are being honest but you are also taking people at "face/body" value. Maybe that person you just said that to is a great person, just not physically beautiful the first time you see her? I do know where youre coming from though....when I was young I just went out with the good looking azzzzzzholes........

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 06/09/08 11:22 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 06/09/08 11:22 AM
And they have to have a big PACK OF GUM!!!

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Mon 06/09/08 11:23 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction! O.k. I came to the conclusion I havnt done anything wrong or disrespectfull.

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Mon 06/09/08 11:23 AM
And they have to have a big gums always good.lol PACK OF GUM!!!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 06/09/08 11:23 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction! O.k. I came to the conclusion I havnt done anything wrong or disrespectfull. And you deserve a Kewpie doll.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 06/09/08 11:24 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction! O.k. I came to the conclusion I havnt done anything wrong or disrespectfull. You just need to learn tact......That is the big difference in being an azzzzzzzhole to people!!!

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Mon 06/09/08 11:24 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction! O.k. I came to the conclusion I havnt done anything wrong or disrespectfull. And you deserve a Kewpie doll. I got your kewpie doll!!!

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Mon 06/09/08 11:25 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction! O.k. I came to the conclusion I havnt done anything wrong or disrespectfull. You just need to learn tact......That is the big difference in being an azzzzzzzhole to people!!! Doesnt get much more tactfull then saying Sorry Im not interested

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 06/09/08 11:29 AM
Looks arent as important to me anymore......but yes you do have to have some sort of attraction! O.k. I came to the conclusion I havnt done anything wrong or disrespectfull. You just need to learn tact......That is the big difference in being an azzzzzzzhole to people!!! Doesnt get much more tactfull then saying Sorry Im not interested Very true one should take that and let it be for I have heard much worse. And funny part about that I had one contact me not me them. My pictures are there and state I'm full figured and he got ugly after about 10 e-mails Believe me I let him kmow what I thought shshshshs

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Mon 06/09/08 11:32 AM
A polite rejection is always preferrable to being strung along - even if it's done with the 'best' of intentions. No one needs/wants to invest time and energy into someone who doesn't feel the same way. I think you're doing the right thing - ignore the insults that might come back to you.

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 06/09/08 11:33 AM
I really dont email first usually. But if/when a guy says not interested...then Im ok with that...I figure there are too many fish in the sea to let it bother me. I know not alot of guys like bigger women and that is ok...there are plenty that do!

Dangerous_Kitchen Joined Mon 06/02/08 Posts: 2897	Mon 06/09/08 11:35 AM
Do you mean women are emailing you and you respond with "Not interested"? wow Gypsy nice set of white shirt you have on there