I'm so sad over the way my body looks.It just disgusts me. After having four children my body looks awful. Clothes don't fit or look right on me. Maybe it's because of the way they are made nowadays. I have tried losing weight. That didn't help. I've tried lifting weights. I've even excerised. Nothing works. My body just seems to keep getting worser looking. I use to enjoy wearing shorts, but now I am ashamed to. What suggestions do any of you women have that I haven't tried that might could help? Or am I losing the battle? I don't have money for surgeries to make it look better.

excersize and cut calories

Tattoos.

Stand up and be proud of who you are, and don't look in the mirror too much, or get on a scale, work on the inside, and the outside will follow along.

I lost 75lbs so far.... TRUST ME.

Realize that you need to love yourself and accept yourself for what you are, none of us are perfect and you have 4 wonderful children to be thankful for.


Quit worrying and just enjoy yourself

Cut back on a few things at first. If you cut back too much, then it will all come back.


My advice dont take diet pills cuz they are expensive for one and two once you quit most of the weight will come back

i have many scars,cant lose those.I roll with it.

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I have that. It doesn't help. I feel like when I walk the back of my legs feel like jello. It's so flabby.

I think Lily and FireOfThePhoenix have some good advice. Keep your head up, sweetie.

I wish you wouldn't feel that way.
Do what you can and accept the rest.

No way dude.

I have lost 12 pounds so far, but it's not helping. My body keeps getting flabby.

Thanks.

I just can't seem to get clothes to fit me right. I'm constantly pulling at my pants and bra to get them to fit. I've tried smaller and bigger size clothes and nothing seems to fit. It's because of the way my body is shaped.

how do you think someone like me feels? i have to buy all my clothes too big for me, and since i cant wear belts i have to be tuggin at my pants all the time. and shirts, its hard to find my size, with my shoulders chest and neck get real tight, and around midsection its too damn short. you have to make due with what you can when you cant find what your looking for. but you are who you are, dont try to change it much, your that way for a reason. be yourself and make yourself happy. that should be first and foremost in alot of situations.

Yes I have 4 beautiful girls. Thanks, but it's just so hard not to worry about the way I look. I felt this way for years and it seems to have gotten worser since my hysterectomy. I'm unable to control my weight.

I have noticed this. I also crave sugar. If I don't eat sugar I have fits.

word for word... me...
one thing have learned...
i am who i am.. and i love me for it.. my kids love me.. and if nothin else. my cat lovesme!!!!

love yoursef.. you are exeactly how you should be..

I have them to. Thankfully my doctor cut me to where they are not noticeable.

I agree with Lily, take care of the inside first. Then you enjoy taking care of the outside much more.

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