muahahahaha, you guys are devious, I love you all

It's them - I feel the same way... It's like that movie "cocoon"

you gals rejecting them all the time cause it

Maybe it's not the best place to live?

One interesting tendency is for married men to look better. People flourish with love, or in a good environment, and they often wither in a bad environment or without love. When you look at one of these men try to imagine them in better clothes (once they start caring or are happy again), better groomed (when they feel alive again), and shining with that glow that is a love of life from having joy in their hearts.

Although it isn't always easy I try to view people I meet with this "adjustment". I read on another posting list about people who are positive being more attractive, but in essense for the longest time rather than look for someone mindlessly happy, hip, popular, and motivated by greed I've been looking more for someone i can relate to, adore, and respect as a down to earth real person.

In truth I've seen a lot of people around, but normally if I approach someone I have nothing to do with it's someone that seems sad and needing someone to check on them. Happy content people don't need my attention. It's those people who have that sad look so many don't like that interest me in hopes that I could make it better, or somehow relate to them.

amen.life can take its toll if you not happy .they say people need hugs daily to thrive.i believe it.
i have aged okay except for the weight thing.i find that I am less shallow as I get older and I'm not so hung up on looks anymore.

nice comment blackbird thanks for letting us know not all are so shallow as to look at the outside of the book without opening it to see if there is a good story in there.

thats because women suck the life outta men

wishful thinking

lmao tell me about it....

Actually I have failed to meet any women my age recently that have aged as well as me...Maybe it's a matter of skin, or the women I am meeting I have no idea. I do know that most of the women paying attention to me for the last couple of years have been younger does that indicate anything I should be worried about?

Stop focusing on the age factor, rely more on the human factor. Whether you two get along, have similar interests etc.
JMO

hmmmm

I honestly think : you and them .
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What's wrong with me????

i looked 46 in high school

i havent aged at all

lol

age is like a fine wine, it gets better as the years pass by

But turns to vinegar if not handled properly

YOu have a problem with fat?

I like BBW

I like my looks better now than when I was in highschool...I never went for what a guy looks like but what was in his heart...maybe that is where i went wrong? lol