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Have one of your male friends answer the phone and tell him he's your husband... he wont call you again!!! |
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You have seen the RED FLAGS hun...trust you gut...forget about him. Obviously your feelings didn't matter to him, he wasn't honest...why be concerned about his feelings? What goes around comes around! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!
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you are already playing private detective with this person, so kinda scary!! at this point i wouldn't really worry about rude, just move on. So, are you saying it wasn't okay for me to verify that he really was lying and that it was okay for him to lie again and accuse somebody else? |
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just tell him your not intorestid
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just be honest with him..he has already lied to you so you dont need to stoop to his level and lie to him
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you are already playing private detective with this person, so kinda scary!! at this point i wouldn't really worry about rude, just move on. So, are you saying it wasn't okay for me to verify that he really was lying and that it was okay for him to lie again and accuse somebody else? NO. But the neighbor says he's making himself out to be more than he really is??? Clearly he needs to change his sells pitch because he sucked at it. |
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you are already playing private detective with this person, so kinda scary!! at this point i wouldn't really worry about rude, just move on. So, are you saying it wasn't okay for me to verify that he really was lying and that it was okay for him to lie again and accuse somebody else? not at all, i'm saying the fact that you had to do it is not a good thing. i'm on your side, move on from this psycho! |
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you are already playing private detective with this person, so kinda scary!! at this point i wouldn't really worry about rude, just move on. So, are you saying it wasn't okay for me to verify that he really was lying and that it was okay for him to lie again and accuse somebody else? not at all, i'm saying the fact that you had to do it is not a good thing. i'm on your side, move on from this psycho! Sorry for the misunderstanding, |
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i think u did the right thing.... and maybe he wont call cause his neighbor will tell him that u called them.... who cares? you had a vibe and was best to find out right away.... rather than giving the liar excuses for his actions
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Just tell him that things aren't addind up and you just don't feel comfortable with it anymore. Tell him that you're not the one for him and wish him good luck with the search.
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Edited by
Moondark
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Sat 05/24/08 09:40 AM
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Don't answer the phone. This is why I don't give my phone number out until I've met the person in a coffee shop or someplace public. They can't call me or find me if they have misrepresented themselves or it feels all wrong in a bad way.
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Wait, leme get this straight....
He says he is 6' and weighs 350. Drives not one but two old vans? Lives in a $7,000 home Too heavy to work...... AND His neighbor says HE'S OVERSELLING HIMSELF? Baby, You HAVE to hang in there JUST TO SEE THE GUY!!!! I want a full report on him |
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So here is my problem. I'm not going to pursue anything further with this guy but he is supposed to be calling at 3pm so what do I say? I don't want to be rude or hurt his feelings so I'm having a hard time figuring out what to say. Any suggestions? Let him know what time it is and just before you hang up, if he calls again, you'll consider it harrassment. Hopefully, you also have call blocking as well. |
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Although I do like the Older styled vans better than the new piece of crap, that a Real Man should NEVER be seen in!
Maybe it's done up like the A-Team Van... Or maybe it's fully custom, with shag carpeting, King size bed and a Fridge.... A traveling Love Nest I don't see how you can pass on this one, the up side is way too high on this guy Can you ask if he has a sister for me please |
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Although I do like the Older styled vans better than the new piece of crap, that a Real Man should NEVER be seen in! Maybe it's done up like the A-Team Van... Or maybe it's fully custom, with shag carpeting, King size bed and a Fridge.... A traveling Love Nest I don't see how you can pass on this one, the up side is way too high on this guy Can you ask if he has a sister for me please I tell you what. I'll tell you where he lives and you can meet him for yourself to see what he's like in person and then you can ask him if he's got a sister. |
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